it would be wrong to ban transgender girls from sports even if no cisgender girls were victimized in the process
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@violet.lexi.fyi
36 year old trans lesbian plural system account: @lexi.fyi
at this point the main thing i am looking for in a woman is the ability to get me in and out of a restaurant without stressing me out or letting me bump into anyone
restaurants can be terrifying for girls who can't see good. they are always dark and loud, and people carrying plates are often walking very fast in unpredictable directions
just a Crazy Jane looking for my Space Case ๐
you know damn well you're the Crazy Jane of our system
imagine if your twin sister was disappointed in you, and you couldn't even fault her for it, because she knows everything about you, even the stuff you don't tell anyone else. also she is Supergirl, the comic book hero
what it's like to be plural
if you show me too much love, it makes me leave. guess that's one of many things that's wrong with me: looking past you when you're right in front of me
i see some trans women talk about reflexively giving men "The Nod" in public. my advice for fixing that: stop making eye contact with men personally, i don't even look at men i don't know. in fact, when a man tries to talk to me in public, i pretend i didn't hear him if i can
a trans woman should be allowed to have opinions that are at least as problematic as those held by the average cis woman before anyone feels entitled to demonize her
i originally posted this on Lex last year after i gave up on there, as part of a series of Halloween shitposts i remember being nervous that my ex, a vampire, would think i was vagueing her ๐คญ
apparently because she's a "real" vampire (seems bioessentialist ๐) the holiday is insulting to her "culture" (she was turned four years ago lol). any excuse to stay in all night coffin-rotting, fangs in my carotid, as usual! where's her bloodlust? maybe i'll call the hot wolf from my running group
i showed my friends, then we high-fived. sorry if you feel objectified. can't help myself, hormones are high ;)
please don't put me back on hold now you know you have control i'll do anything i'm told just to know i'm not alonะต
next time when you call for me you can skip the pleasantries i'll sit back and let you speak 'cause I enjoy the company
it envelops as i lie it envelops as i dream i can hear it in my sleep i can feel it as i breathe if i gave more than i had well i'd be ripping at the seams
well, i pretended to sleep for over eight hours, and i managed to scam myself into actually doing it for at least fiveโฆ that's a lot better than last night :)
every now and then i get the drive to quit weed and it always lasts exactly as long as it takes for me to remember that i am an insomniac
maybe i don't want to read the alter group chat constantly? is that okay with you, discord?
trying to settle on a systemic โbluesky isn't real, but our mutuals areโ attitude towards posting lately
every now and then i get the drive to quit weed and it always lasts exactly as long as it takes for me to remember that i am an insomniac
i get uncomfortable when someone who doesn't talk to me regularly apologizes for not doing so. my understanding was probably just that we aren't close like that and it's fine. if they apologize, then it feels like maybe their understanding is that we ARE close like that, and it's NOT fine? :/
me: i'm a plural system them [cursory googling]: what a fun way to visualize your internal thought processes! so, anyway, i'm wanted for murder now
i'm not an author -_- it's a shit post
plural author who refers to her alters as her "beta readers"
me: aww geez i hope it's not weird that i liked this post that my alter already liked them, probably: nice! two likes
honestly, my biggest fear with unmasking on bluesky, with posting regularly and being followed on our personal accounts, is that it will seem like lexi is doing some kind of weird, elaborate bit but if that's my BIGGEST fear, then i should really just get over it already
if this post gets at least one like, i will be brave and post an honest thread about my experience with plurality today >_<;
remove our earbuds before taking photos of ourself challenge (apparently impossible??)
posting selfies every day is fun, but it's a lot of pressure to put on a "real outfit" i'm lazy!!
the first time i encountered a trans woman who didn't know what AGP was, i cried. i didn't need to learn what it was. i came up with the same concept, when i was a child, just to hate myself with the idea that a trans woman could justโฆ never think that way about herselfโฆ it's wonderful to me