Aras Sivad (she/her)

@arassivad.bsky.social

Independent Artist, tabletop game enthusiast, witchy mama, and rainbow fae.

Therapy is good, yall. But you have to make concrete goals, be honest/open with them, and put in the work for it to be effective. You can't expect to tell them very little and get anything out of it. It also takes time. Nothing big will be accomplished quickly.

Dear young artist/crafter: Your work not being seen as a "real job" is an ongoing effect of capitalism, and misogyny. The people telling you to get a real job will never value what you do, even when they need it. Know your worth, and never give them an inch.

getting tired of people on the left still launching substack newsletters after all the reporting on that company in recent years

I desperately need a full-time job. Any moderately paying job. Want me to keep your lore and only come out after weeks to say "this is what soup is in your world"? Sure. Lock me in a closet and have me rewrite everything over and over again? Why not. ANYTHING.

I’ll never get used to seeing my name in TTRPG book credits. It’s so cool. I wanna write even more. Hire me 🫡 I’d love to work on more systems, settings, and adventures.

99% of the time, when someone accuses you of selective outrage, it’s a way of politically demobilizing you and shutting you up “Why are you angry about data centers instead of fast fashion” isn’t about making you care about fast fashion. It’s about shutting you up about data centers And visa versa

The point isn't to produce essays, it's to teach students how to think for fuck's sake. The minute you automate that, it's over. You might as well close the course. Which they're also doing. This is an attack on learning, and everyone is just shrugging.

Every so often I teach someone how to spin yarn on a spindle. And I always tell them that the first yarn you make will not be good yarn, and it's not meant to be, because right now you are not making wool into yarn, you're making yourself into a spinner.

Hey, growing past body shaming includes no longer making penis size jokes. People who are bad are not bad because they have small penises. People who have small penises simply have them due to genetics, biology, and happenstance. It doesnt and should not reflect on their character in any way.

Jessie (the cat) has become so attached that she races me to the bathroom, trying to get in before I close the door. If she doesn't make it in time or I kick her out, she SCREAMS. She woke up Luca who told me she was trying to open the door but was too small to reach the handle.

Okay look I love Jimothy as much as the next Washingtonian expat but I just read some abled nonsense extolling his resilience and honey Sweetheart Babygirl (gn) The raccoon does not have willpower. This is just how disabled life is. We survive because we have to. It’s not inspiring. It’s life.