Bethany

@bmcgx.bsky.social

phd candidate at UVa stupid opinions sadly mine 📍dc + cville

haven’t even been in dc for a month and I’m already at the taking the train back to Charlottesville every weekend level of denial because I miss my places

we moved to dc and 1) the cats have never lived somewhere with stairs, lots to process 2) Abe and Harry hanging together no matter where I live has become something of a gag and I love it very much

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fr though my 20s were like laughably bad—had to escape an abusive relationship, got a grapefruit sized tumor that cost me an organ and much of my sanity, had a generally horrible and traumatizing time in graduate school—but in my 30th yr I’ll finish the PhD, am moving to DC, starting a new job

I’m moving in 2 weeks and I’m really depressed about it and I am really bad at life transitions and phoebe bridgers picked this week to give me a new album

yesterday my phone died and simply never turned back on again (which was ultimately some kind of factory defect) but it meant I had to drive from Charlottesville to the Apple Store in Richmond with no phone and directions on a sticky note like Lewis and Clark or some shit

the universe knows I’m pure of heart and love all living creatures so I’ve been blessed with a new baby bird sighting nearly every day this summer

5 years of living in charlottesville means 5 years of finding out from Instagram when Dave Matthews is 2 blocks from my house and missing the random casual run in of my dreams every single time 💔

I love how every day in charlottesville they’re digging up a new road and then giving it the worst patch job imaginable so no matter where I go I’m driving on a mariokart course

my friend (not an early americanist) couldn’t remember what SHEAR was called and recently asked if I’m excited to attend SMORE this weekend

sticking my tongue out at reckless drivers instead of flipping the bird in hopes that they find it cute and unexpected and don’t think to shoot me