Weapon of the day: Even when our take feels right, those we care for may see it differently. There are two sides to every coin. Sometimes it really ‘pays’ to turn it over.
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Weapon of the day: On the rocky days, remember the smooth ones. Neither is permanent. Be kind to yourself. Tomorrow is another chance.
Good morning! Today, I hope you receive abundant rewards for your good work. You deserve to have more than enough. (Image by Anastasiya Chernysh from Pixabay)
Thanks so much to @caregiverwarrior.bsky.social, @biologist077.bsky.social, @zebrah.bsky.social, @lucyksy.bsky.social, @dominicervolina.com, @theresjustnopo1.bsky.social, #Psychology Today, #Hospice News, #Prevention & @aarp.org for your help this week! open.substack.com/pub/thereali...
Fighting Back Ageism in Health Care
The Realistic Caregiver's Weekly Roundup! July 23 - 29, 2026
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Weapon of the day: sometimes doing the next right thing is making a mistake. Mistakes teach us lessons and help us grow. And that’s often exactly right.
Good morning! Today, I hope you feel life expanding around you from possibilities, opportunities and hope. You work hard to create a better life; you deserve it. (Image by urbanvixem from Pixabay)
Weapon of the day: today is the day you’ll look back on. Make it worth while.
Weapon of the day: Acceptance takes time. The struggle is real. Be patient and gentle with yourself. Sometimes, being willing is enough. You’ll get there.
Weapon of the day: when one door closes another one opens, but waiting in the hallway is the hard part. Take heart, Warrior. You’ve already rung the doorbell. It will open soon enough.
Thank you to @caregiverwarrior.bsky.social, @alzassociation.bsky.social, @caregiving.bsky.social, @achronicvoice.com, @slem63.bsky.social, @ariaa.bsky.social, @raeradford.bsky.social, @lizetkruyff.bsky.social & @jenthorne.bsky.social for your help! therealisticcaregiver.substack.com/p/how-to-fin...
How To Find A Great Private Caregiver – Part Three
The Realistic Caregiver's Weekly Roundup! July 16 - 22, 2026
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Weapon of the day: trust your own experience. You have a great track record so far and are showing up once again. You got this.
Thanks so much to @caregiverwarrior.bsky.social, @endoflifecare.bsky.social, @caregiving.bsky.social, @biologist077.bsky.social, @katethealmostgreat.bsky.social, @broadwaybabyto.bsky.social, @ariaa.bsky.social, and @dreambeastpoems.bsky.social! therealisticcaregiver.substack.com/p/the-ins-an...
The Ins & Outs On Using A Caregiving Agency – Part Two
The Realistic Caregiver's Weekly Roundup! July 9 - 15, 2026
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Weapon of the day: Caregivers deserve to spend a little time in the pity parade if they need to, but once we’ve walked a couple blocks, we need to leave the parade.
Weapon of the day: waking up anxious and worried doesn’t mean you’ll have the worst day. It’s a signal you are upset and need to be kind to yourself. Reach out to someone who believes in you.
Good morning! Today, I hope the messages you receive include appreciation, offers of help and comforting words. You make an impact; it helps to read about it. (Image by Van B.A. from Pixabay)
Weapon of the day: life is like a car beeping at you to get of the way. If you don’t, it could run you over. Sometimes we just need to get out of its way.
Weapon of the day: acceptance. Acceptance doesn’t change the situation, it changes how heavy it feels.
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How To Find Help Inside Your Home – Part One
The Realistic Caregiver's Weekly Roundup! July 2 - 8, 2026
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Weapon of the day: we forget we are affected too. Disease and illness hurt all of us. The suffering is different but just as profound for caregivers.
Weapon of the day: I know your grief. I see your broken heart. I see the love you have and the care you give. I am in awe. You are not alone, I promise. I am here.
Finding the best #mobility aid for your loved one can be tricky - here's some ideas! Thanks so much to @caregiverwarrior.bsky.social, @biologist077.bsky.social, @ariaa.bsky.social, and @jaybird54.bsky.social for their help with this roundup! therealisticcaregiver.substack.com/p/discover-w...
Discover Which Mobility Aid Works Best For You
The Realistic Caregiver's Weekly Roundup! June 18 - 24, 2026
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Big thanks to @chronicillness.bsky.social, @caregiverwarrior.bsky.social, @ariaa.bsky.social, @charleskeener.bsky.social, @jaybird54.bsky.social, @tdssister.bsky.social, & @catsbearsandme.bsky.social! Happy Fourth of July to all and keep fighting the good fight. open.substack.com/pub/thereali...
Don’t Let Chronic Pain Drive You To Madness
The Realistic Caregiver's Weekly Roundup! June 25 – July 1, 2026
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Reconnecting with estranged family is tough. Thanks so much to @caregiverwarrior.bsky.social, @biologist077.bsky.social, @bellwhitworth.bsky.social, @jaybird54.bsky.social and @futharkvillage.bsky.social for their contributions this week! therealisticcaregiver.substack.com/p/reconnecti...
Reconnecting With An Estranged Sibling
The Realistic Caregiver's Weekly Roundup! June 11 - 17, 2026
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Weapon of the day: nobody tells you caregiving can make you feel like a failure even though you are doing everything right. You are doing a great job.
Weapon of the day: what happens in vagueness stays in vagueness. Be clear. Clarity and communication are powerful tools in caregiving.
Thanks so much to @biologist077.bsky.social, @caregiverwarrior.bsky.social, @katethealmostgreat.bsky.social, @edwardleepoetry.bsky.social, and @allysonjoule.bsky.social for their contributions to this article. Y'all rock! therealisticcaregiver.substack.com/p/how-downsi...
How Downsizing And Decluttering Can Be An Act Of Love
The Realistic Caregiver's Weekly Roundup! June 4 – 10, 2026
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Weapon of the day: grief isn’t on a time clock. It keeps its own time and counsel. Be patient with grief and gentle with yourself.
#Tip: Sibling estrangement happens to so many families. Many times it occurs after a loved one passes away. But when you're taking care of a parent as an adult, you may feel the need to reach out. Successful reconciliation relies on open #communication, #empathy, and active #listening.