What's my favorite board game? Music genre? Variety of wine? I've seen many such lists and had feared they were a bit trite but in truth I just struggle to choose favorites and didn't know how to present it well. Until now. I'll probably add to this violetrollergirl.com/about/#tech-... over time!

About • Violet Rollergirl • Hacker chic companionship

I was formally trained as a boy, but I might actually be the girl of your dreams! I'll make the first move, get you laughing, and invite you into the moment with grace and without pressure.

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I'm sadly gonna miss literally all the Halloween parties because I'll be out of the country but I also have a good chunk of my travel plans at least penciled in all the way through February. Peep my calendar for where you can run into me for free (cons and events) or book a more ✨personal✨ meeting!

Numbers are sexy but these are sad. If you've noticed many trans people in their feels lately, this may explain it a bit. It's hard to hold on to motivation and joy when day after day we see this vile shit (or a pained reaction to it) on almost every screen, in almost every feed, morning to night.

Alejandra Caraballo@esqueer.net · 15h ago

Digital ad spending on anti trans ads is on pace with 2024 and could potentially exceed it. Despite some reporting that PACs might be retreating on anti trans ads, that doesn't seem to be the case. adtracker.lgbtqlegislation.com

I also sell content privately "off-platform" but never via Dropbox or Google Drive link. Instead, I use wormhole.app which offers far more safety. When the customer is also actually careful with their own discretion, @signal.org is another good way to sell. See: violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo...

Wormhole - Simple, private file sharing

Wormhole lets you share files with end-to-end encryption and a link that automatically expires.

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This FREE workshop for sex workers is nearing capacity! Participation is limited by my funding; if you're in Chicago on Oct 14, I will give you free money in @z.cash to learn how to use this payment app. Many more American providers are using this, now. Reach out if you'd like me to list you, too:

I currently have small C cups, which is juuust big enough to give a titty fuck, which is also the major reason I think I might want moar boob one day. 😁 Like, I love my chest so much, but when I'm convinced my body has done all it can with what God (and HRT) has given me, a modest D would be fun! 😈

My specialty is popularizing ethical use cases for tools Leftists love to hate. Because it will always be about impact, not provenance. Crypto is Bad, unless you're a debanked sex worker: bsky.app/profile/viol... AI is Bad unless it ensnares entitled men preying on women: bsky.app/profile/viol...

Violet "Vi" Rollergirl • NYC🗽touring✈️ CHI 10/13-17, EXXXOTICA NJ@violetrollergirl.com · 3mo ago

I agree that most crypto (and AI) projects are useless, scams, and grifts. But I am not. In case you haven't seen it yet, here's a use for cryptocurrency that really makes lives better: VioletRollergirl.com/resources/fo... There IS a sliver of good. We can actually take and use just the good part!

And buy their art! It’s generally smart, funny, politically astute, imaginative, and often erotically charged in the best kind of way. Just like them

Violet "Vi" Rollergirl • NYC🗽touring✈️ CHI 10/13-17, EXXXOTICA NJ@violetrollergirl.com · last yr.

Sex work requires myriad skills + most sex workers are gig workers = you can support sex workers even without buying hole or pole. I know editors, tailors, graphic designers, leather workers, bartenders, computer programmers, cooks, tutors, and nannies who also do sex work as a supplemental income.

How sweet it was to get a painting commission request from someone seeking to gift another sw’er with artwork. I loved working on this project and @violetrollergirl.com is an incredible inspiration ☺️💖💐

Violet "Vi" Rollergirl • NYC🗽touring✈️ CHI 10/13-17, EXXXOTICA NJ@violetrollergirl.com · yesterday

I'm almost lost for words about how sweet it was to be gifted these two drawings by my client the other day. 🥹 Not only are the two renditions from one of my all-time favorite photos of myself, they were drawn by none other than fellow provider @rebelrie.bsky.social who I met at #Exxxotica in 2025.

I'm almost lost for words about how sweet it was to be gifted these two drawings by my client the other day. 🥹 Not only are the two renditions from one of my all-time favorite photos of myself, they were drawn by none other than fellow provider @rebelrie.bsky.social who I met at #Exxxotica in 2025.

I can't tell if the tide for encrypted money is turning or if I'm just evolving into my next evolutionary form. Had to decline a speaking engagement because I am already committed to another speaking engagement (Mumbai, Nov 6th) on the literal other side of the globe: cfp.devcon.org/devcon8/talk...

Friendly reminder that you can (and should) choose to browse my extremely normal website that shows you how to do extremely normal things that are extremely ethical in complete and utter secrecy using the Tor Onion site that I publish. Anyone telling you this is weird or wrong wants power over you.

Escort skills that prove useful in a civ context: writing unambiguous "meet at my door" delivery instructions. 🤝🏻

I bet you can guess which one of the things in this drawer I did not use for the aforementioned and much needed railing. 😂 (Praise be to Him for striking me ill last week and making me utterly feral this one. 😈 Mysterious ways, or something!)

Business → Casual.

Exactlyyy. I list the public events where I'll be presenting/speaking/booth babing or whatever on my ads now. My travel calendar is itself a "get pre-screened for free by showing up and Being Normal in person at this event I'll already be at anyway" calendar. It's also a good way to see I'm no AI.

Tours • Violet Rollergirl • Hacker chic companionship

An extrovert with a chronic case of wanderlust who loves to say yes to adventure, I'm never beating the cosmopolitan allegations. See where I'm planning to be and when.

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Thank you so, so much to whoever sent me this sizable gift recently! 😍 One thing you may not know is sending shielded @z.cash offers no way for me to see the sender's (your) address. But I still really wanted you to know that I deeply appreciate this, so thanking you publicly is the best I can do!

For months now, I've been getting notifications that guys I hooked up with off Grindr years, and years, and years ago are finally getting on @signal.org. On the plus side, I love to see more people figuring out that communications privacy matters. On the other hand, hardcore recession indicator. 😮‍💨

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh *deep breath* Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha I'm just gonna put this here. Again. violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo... Hahahahahahahahahahahahahah

One silver lining about falling ill is when I feel better my libido comes back with a VENGEANCE. 🥵 Yesterday I had such wild hot sex dreams I woke up actually moaning. Then I fell back asleep and more carnal dreams woke me AGAIN. Thank gods I'm on my way to get proper railed by a proper gentleman.

We are ONE WEEK out from our workshop with @violetrollergirl.com! Providers: We have a few more spots available. Don’t be shy! Clients: Show your love by donating to this event! This free event isn’t free to put on so every contribution is SO appreciated. Message me for how to send. 😍🥰🤘 #oursky

Elena Marchetti ❤️‍🔥 Seattle 10/21 - 10/24 | Chicago@meetelenamarchetti.com · 3w ago

💫 Calling all providers! 💫 Do you know much about crypto? I don't, so I called subject matter expert @violetrollergirl.com! We're hosting a free Crypto 101 workshop in Chicago for local + visiting providers on 10/14. Reach out to me or Violet to RSVP & verify. We'd love to have you! 🪙 #oursky

@bostonswac.bsky.social and @jessicavanmeir.bsky.social did incredible organizing for this, and i’m thrilled to have worked with them. i was also incredibly proud that my union in Massachusetts, UAW, voted unanimously to join BSWAC’s statewide coalition for the decriminalization of sex work

Boston Sex Workers and Allies Collective (BSWAC)@bostonswac.bsky.social · 4d ago

VICTORY!!! Last night, the Cambridge City Council voted 8-1 to pass a policy order that deprioritizes the arrest and prosecution of persons for consensual adult sex work. We are one step closer to statewide decriminalization. When we fight, we WIN.

FWIW, I used to be surprised by how many clients have no clue about what many workers would consider de rigueur. I think the filter bubble effect en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Filter_... is real and even amplified for criminalized realms. You may find this eye-opening: violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo...

Discretion-maxxing, or How To Find, Book, and Pay Escorts Completely Secretly • Violet Rollergirl • Hacker chic companionship

Learn to book an escort without anyone knowing you did that. Or, how to actually stay down low with a pro, like a pro.

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I'm super excited for and grateful to @meetelenamarchetti.com for organizing another of my cryptocurrency workshops with me. In Chicago on October 14! If my provider guides feel overwhelming, come practice what's in them in person with me and your peers. Plus, get a starter $ZEC gift for learning!

🤣🤣🤣🤣💀🪦 This game is so real. Also if you haven't read @raxsha.bsky.social's 2023 piece about the quiet exodus from tech jobs to sex work, I feel like the two combined can add a bunch of context (and lore) to some of your favorite heauxs. (Not me. My lore is…different.) mashable.com/article/tech...

2017: Transition goals. / 2026: Transition reality. 🩷🤍🩵 #TransitionGoals #TransitionVisionBoard #mood bsky.app/profile/viol... bsky.app/profile/viol...

Blaming the actions of cis men on trans women is itself an act of trans femme erasure which is of course exactly the point.

Alejandra Caraballo@esqueer.net · 5d ago

Cis guy walks into a women's locker room and immediately proceeds to sexually assault women. JK Rowling: this is trans people's fault.

Another thread in which I wish our ethics would evolve faster than our technology. 👇🏻 (Today is a chore day and I tend to do chores s l o w l y and in small chunks while occupying my mind with various intellectual things because if I get distracted with physical pleasures the chores never get done.)

Violet "Vi" Rollergirl • NYC🗽touring✈️ CHI 10/13-17, EXXXOTICA NJ@violetrollergirl.com · 5d ago

This is ~6mos old now but I finally read this and some of the linked paper about de-anonymization. It emphasizes my points about "data linkability" in my Remaining Face-In guide for sex workers: violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo... TL;DR: Work personas aren't enough to protect your legal identity.

This is ~6mos old now but I finally read this and some of the linked paper about de-anonymization. It emphasizes my points about "data linkability" in my Remaining Face-In guide for sex workers: violetrollergirl.com/resources/fo... TL;DR: Work personas aren't enough to protect your legal identity.

About a week ago I was at a fundraiser for Seeing Red and my donation won me a raffle bag with this signed photograph of Artina Darkly and other neat goodies! (Even though I never win things!) Even the bag itself is pretty awesome! They're halfway to their funding goal so please donate and repost.