I have zero patience with any one who asks another human to quietly accept being treated as less than a full human. Trans people are people who deserve safety, dignity, and health care just like every other human. No ifs ands or buts.
Honestly the discourse really is just a lot of cis people going "won't you trannies just accept you are less than human scum that don't matter and throw yourselves on the pyre for me". You can dress it in fancy words but a ban on trans healthcare will kill trans people & you demand we support it