Dr. NerdLove
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Free now of the chains of Twitter, traveling the world and doing good. Dispensing the best dating advice on the Internet. Send your dating questions to doc@doctornerdlove.com.
If you’re caught up in wanting and waiting for someone to change their mind or hoping that the “maybe” you got really meant “yes,” this one’s for you. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/KeFMe... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com @lavitaloca34.bsky.social
Ambiguity Is a No
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This week we are joined by Evita Sawyers. The stories are messy, but the lesson is simple: healthy relationships aren’t built on wishful thinking, avoiding conflict, or waiting for someone to change. 🎧 youtu.be/pFrat5xjf_I . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com @lavitaloca34.bsky.social
From The Archives: How to Find the Girl of Your Dreams
How to Find the Girl of Your Dreams
A question for you. How many times have you been frustrated with the people you’ve been dating? Seriously. How many times have you been this close to giving up on dating entirely because of bad relationships and worse dates? The toxic exes, the Ones That Got Away, the dates where there’s been no chemistry, the date you...Read more about How to Find the Girl of Your Dreams
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Sure he looks adorable but it took me six tries to get this picture. Every time I reached for my phone, he immediately moved to thwart my goal of recording the cute
From The Archives: I Lost My Virginity To A Sex Worker, Now I’m Freaking Out!
I Lost My Virginity To A Sex Worker, Now I'm Freaking Out!
He lost his virginity to a sex worker and his anxiety has been out of control ever since. Did he do something horrible out of a selfish desire to have sex?
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NEW COLUMN: She matched with him on Tinder, asked for his number and set up a date. But how could she possibly like someone like him when her Instagram suggested otherwise? ASK DR. NERDLOVE: Did My Insecurity Sabotage A Relationship Before It Even Began?
Did My Insecurity Sabotage A Relationship Before It Even Began?
She matched with him on Tinder, asked for his number and asked for a date. But how could she possibly like someone like him when her Instagram suggested otherwise?
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Folks have covered food, medical treatments, airline safety, etc. I'm going to go with automobile safety. Anti-lock brakes, collision detection, airbags, better seatbelts, crumple zones... all of which has made car crashes a hell of a lot more survivable.
Constantine@ajaxsinger.bsky.social · 20h agoFood, man. Food is so much better than it was in 1986. All of it. Poor-people food, restaurant food, fresh food, frozen food. Food is just a hell of a lot better.
NOW ON PATREON: On the one hand, she matched with him on Twitter, asked for his number and asked him on a date. On the other hand, he doesn't look anything like the guys that she follows on Instagram. Doesn't this mean that she's NOT interested in him? www.patreon.com/DrNe...
I realize I'm middle-aged because I have managed to exhaust myself and make myself so sweaty that I needed a second shower because I fished all of Vincent's toys from under the couch, stove, fridge, entertainment console and ottoman. LIKE I EXCAVATED LIKE THE VALLEY OF THE GODDAMN KINGS.
The internet is great because you can find your people. But it also kind of sucks because those people might live thousands of miles away. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/evQgV... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com
We've Lost Third Spaces
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DON'T GO THROUGH YOUR PARTNER’S PHONE! Trust isn’t built on surveillance. If you have to keep checking your partner’s phone to “trust” them, you might wanna listen to this episode. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/MKTUi... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com
Trust Isn't Built Through Surveillance
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From The Archives: I Can’t Keep Helping My Friend Get Over His Break Up!
I Can't Keep Helping My Friend Get Over His Break Up!
She's trying to help her friend with his unexpected break up, but it's becoming too much to handle. How can she ask him to stop demanding her help?
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NOW ON PATREON: On the one hand, she matched with him on Twitter, asked for his number and asked him on a date. On the other hand, he doesn't look anything like the guys that she follows on Instagram. Doesn't this mean that she's NOT interested in him? www.patreon.com/DrNe...
From The Archives: Leveling Up: Dating Out Of Your League
Leveling Up: Dating Out Of Your League
I’ll be honest: the cultural phenomenon that is Girls has more or less passed me by. ((Yeah yeah, obvious joke, laugh it up fuzzball…)) However, I will absorb the occasional moment from the show through sheer cultural osmosis – usually when it stirs up another controversy that ends up plastered all over the blogs that I steal from mine...Read more about Leveling Up: Dating Out Of Your League
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If you wake up to find a bear honking the horn of your SUV, your best option is to help them shop for insurance because it's the bear's car now.
WTFIWWY Live - Who Is Honking? Bear Is Honking! - 7/27/26 | Nash Bozard
Here's your WTFIWWY Live for this week! Oh no!
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Ah, the erudite and elevated discourse of modern politics...
San Antonio-area congressional candidate calls children 'cum trophies' in latest controversy
Brandon Herrera (left) and former Florida Congressman Matt Gaetz clasp hands at a San Antonio rally during Herrera's first failed House run. Brandon
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NEW COLUMN: She knows the relationship needed to end, she doesn’t want to go back, but she can’t stop thinking about what might have been. How can she finally let go? ASK DR NERDLOVE: How Do I Move On From A Relationship When I Can’t Let It Go?
How Do I Move On From A Relationship When I Can't Let It Go?
She knows the relationship needed to end, she doesn't want to go back, but she can't stop thinking about what might have been. How can she finally let go?
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Man, it's easy to forget how much a long-ass drive can leave you wiped. Especially when it's an emotionally fraught trip. (It's all ok-ish, just family medical stuff that thankfully is resolved for now.)
Have you ever gone looking for evidence that your worst fear was true, all so you could feel even worse than before? 😬 Sometimes we’re so desperate for certainty that we’ll end up being our own worst enemy. 🎧 youtube.com/shorts/4rNeh... . . . @drlizpowell.bsky.social @doctornerdlove.com
Setting Ourselves Up For Hurt
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From The Archives: Am I Too Intimidating To Be Attractive?
Am I Too Intimidating To Be Attractive?
He knows he's a catch, but he never seems to catch women's attention.. His friends suggest that maybe he's too intimidating. Are they right? What can he do?
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NEW COLUMN: She knows the relationship needed to end, she doesn’t want to go back, but she can’t stop thinking about what might have been. How can she finally let go? ASK DR NERDLOVE: How Do I Move On From A Relationship When I Can’t Let It Go?
How Do I Move On From A Relationship When I Can't Let It Go?
She knows the relationship needed to end, she doesn't want to go back, but she can't stop thinking about what might have been. How can she finally let go?
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NOW LIVE ON PATREON: She knows WHY the relationship failed. She knows it was a bad idea. But she still can't stop thinking about reconciling with her ex. How can she move on from a relationship when she can't seem to let it go... even when she needs to? www.patreon.com/DrNe...
NOW LIVE ON PATREON: She knows WHY the relationship failed. She knows it was a bad idea. But she still can't stop thinking about reconciling with her ex. How can she move on from a relationship when she can't seem to let it go... even when she needs to? www.patreon.com/DrNe...
NOW ON PATREON: It's one thing to be dumped because you're a cheating piece of shit. But what about if you're dumped because you AREN'T cheating on someone? It's the weirdest question I've covered all year... www.patreon.com/DrNe...
Don't let your past get in the way of your future. Let me help you learn the lessons you need so you can move on! Send in your questions about love, sex and dating to ASK DR. NERDLOVE at doctornerdlove.com/c... or email them to doc@doctornerdlove(dot)com!
NEW COLUMN: He’s always had feelings for his friend. Now it seems like she may be getting feelings herself. So why does that seem to make him feel so angry? ASK DR. NERDLOVE: I Think My Friend May Be Falling In Love With Me. Why Do I Resent Her For It?
I Think My Friend May Be Falling In Love With Me. Why Do I Resent Her For It?
He's always had feelings for his friend. Now it seems like she may be getting feelings herself. So why does that seem to leave him confused and upset?
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From The Archives: How Do I Convince Men To See Me As A Real Person?
How Do I Convince Men To See Me As A Real Person?
Every man she dates treats her like a therapist or secretary. She has needs and would like support too. How can she get men to see her as a person?
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