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@gothwhoreofbabylon.bsky.social

‘You look like spring.’ ‘Goth MILF’ ‘Whore of Babylon.’ ‘Are you a goth?’ ‘Nice boobies.’ ‘Useless cunt.’ ‘A beautiful woman.’ Not my words: the words of the general public. Colleagues: I will not post about you. My employer shares none of my views.

You know when you search through your camera roll to look for something? Well I was doing that earlier and I was hunting through early 2022 for something. And I realised that even though I looked absolutely terrible back then my background daily levels of fear were about 100x less than they are now

I showed up to a regional union meeting today, to brief people on some practical trans stuff. And I’ve been thinking for much of the day how weird it feels - how weird it must look - to show up and be professional when charting a tactical path through such personally horrific, terrifying matters.

We already live in the world where only cis teens can take puberty blockers. Cis people availing of treatments that are denied to trans people isn't some massive glaring inconsistency in their worldview. It's banal cissexism, denying us the means to change sex because we're viewed as lesser.

Parker Molloy@parkermolloy.com · 13h ago

Absolutely begging cis people to knock this shit off. "HUR HUR SIUNDS LIKE GENDER AFFIRMING CARE TO ME!" Shut up shut up shut up shut up shut up shut up shut up shut up shut up. STOP I hate mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmjmmmmmmmmmm

When I became my department’s director of education a little over two years ago, I said to the previous DoE that I assumed this was a role where you basically don’t do any research for the duration. He said he thought it was important that people see that you’re still doing *some* research.

Someone I’m close to turned 40 this week, which has left me thinking about the phases of a life. I remember hitting 33, and being like oh no, even if I live to 100 I’ve now got a whole third of my life behind me. I’d made my final decision to transition within the month.

Very nice email this afternoon, letting me know that a really great journal has accepted an article - subject to some minor stuff - in which I make the exciting new argument that trans people should have more money.

Trans rights is inherently a bodily autonomy issue. Just like abortion rights is. We can't have gender equity or reproductive freedom without trans rights. Full stop. You can yell at me and make up shit that you claim I've said if it makes you feel better. I don't care. I'm right. And you know it.

I just don’t think I would put my name to a work document explaining how to commit an act of conversion therapy within the law AND THEN resign. I just think she’s got the sequencing all wrong there.

One assumption I have always carried with me is that anyone I have heard of but who I do not know is probably a bad person, and it’s their actions as a bad person that have put them in a position where I have heard of them. It doesn’t always work as a heuristic, but it very very often does.

Corinne Green@ket.bsky.social · 4d ago

mcbride wants to trade trans rights for a leadership position this is fucking insane but it's not like we didn't warn you

September 14, 2026

Dear Colleague,

I write today, humbly, to ask for your support and your vote for me to be one of the next Co-Chairs of the Democratic Policy and Communications Committee. I am in awe of our caucus and want to contribute what I can to make sure we hit the ground running with a unified message in the 120th Congress.

Since before I was sworn in, I have been grounded by and grateful for the genuine support members of this caucus show for one another. I have been moved by the mentorship, the friendship, and the simple sense of community I have witnessed through the highs and lows of serving in this chamber. We have all been through a great deal this term, and what I have taken from it is that our collective strength is precisely what will win us the majority and allow us to pass an agenda that makes life more affordable for the people we represent.

As we defend and deliver for our constituents in an increasingly complex media environment, our diverse caucus will need an exceptional communications and messaging operation. Before I was elected to office, communications was my profession. I directed national media engagement for the Human Rights Campaign during a period when the equality movement was arguably at its most effective. At that time, we were winning fights by earning public support through effective persuasion. We didn't shame those who disagreed with us. We welcomed them into a conversation about where we agreed and found common ground to build upon.

Since joining this caucus, I have worked to facilitate conversations on issues where we haven't all agreed, and where members in very different districts needed substantively different messages to effectively communicate with their constituents. I never asked a colleague to use a message that didn't fit their district, while also standing firm in our shared principles and what we were trying to accomplish together. That experience reinforced something critical: a big-tent party can hold both…

I know that I pass better than I once did and am also quite pretty. There’s a guy who was so incensed by my being trans that he literally beat me in the street over it last year; but then when he walked past me recently he - despite his obvious motivation to identify trans people - didn’t clock me.

Dr Phoenix CS Andrews@thatdocphoenix.com · 5d ago

I’m never going to be completely stealth and I’m lucky that I do pass all of the time, but it’s getting to the point where I wonder if some of us are too recognisable from socials and the far right men who doxx people and mock them online will just start sharing our images to incite violence