You know when you search through your camera roll to look for something? Well I was doing that earlier and I was hunting through early 2022 for something. And I realised that even though I looked absolutely terrible back then my background daily levels of fear were about 100x less than they are now
Kay
@gothwhoreofbabylon.bsky.social
‘You look like spring.’ ‘Goth MILF’ ‘Whore of Babylon.’ ‘Are you a goth?’ ‘Nice boobies.’ ‘Useless cunt.’ ‘A beautiful woman.’ Not my words: the words of the general public. Colleagues: I will not post about you. My employer shares none of my views.
I showed up to a regional union meeting today, to brief people on some practical trans stuff. And I’ve been thinking for much of the day how weird it feels - how weird it must look - to show up and be professional when charting a tactical path through such personally horrific, terrifying matters.
We already live in the world where only cis teens can take puberty blockers. Cis people availing of treatments that are denied to trans people isn't some massive glaring inconsistency in their worldview. It's banal cissexism, denying us the means to change sex because we're viewed as lesser.
Absolutely begging cis people to knock this shit off. "HUR HUR SIUNDS LIKE GENDER AFFIRMING CARE TO ME!" Shut up shut up shut up shut up shut up shut up shut up shut up shut up. STOP I hate mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmjmmmmmmmmmm
Friends fear she’s doing trade union work on a Saturday.
Gender critical campaigners are unable to operate within the member democracy of their trade unions, and so have to rely on wealthy donors for lawfare, in the hope that the UK judiciary will stand against human rights and democracy.
Gender critical campaigners are unable to operate within the member democracy of their trade unions, and so have to rely on wealthy donors for lawfare, in the hope that the UK judiciary will stand against human rights and democracy.
A ‘gender critical’ Scottish Labour executive committee member and councillor failed to declare on her register of interests the company she set up to sue her trade union, in an apparent breach of the Scottish Councillors’ Code of Conduct www.wearequeeraf.com/scottish-lab...
Extremely cheerful parkrun volunteer was like “Good morning, Kay. Good to see you.” I know I run past you most weeks, but how do you know my naaaaaame.
Further to the post below, this is a different dog.
Ok so in the space of two minutes I have had a bulldog run over to me, jump up at me excitedly and lick my hand, and also had a Dalmatian run over to me, jump up at me excitedly and lick my hand. I am giving good vibes if you are a dog.
Is it catcalling if a group of young men walk past you and one of them literally shouts miaow at you? I do not understand what this is.
Well, there you are: official UK govt figures confirm it costs £3,000 a year more to teach the average undergraduate than they're willing to pay us. www.gov.uk/government/p... Now, they'll explain how that's our fault for greedily having almost no pay-rises for a decade...
It is so important for the whole trade union movement that the University of Brighton fails in its attack on its staff unions.
Press release regarding the situation at University of Brighton here. www.brightonucu.org.uk
Feel like it’s a very specific trans milestone where you’re reasonably certain that your voice passed during a phone conversation with the General Register Office.
When I became my department’s director of education a little over two years ago, I said to the previous DoE that I assumed this was a role where you basically don’t do any research for the duration. He said he thought it was important that people see that you’re still doing *some* research.
Someone I’m close to turned 40 this week, which has left me thinking about the phases of a life. I remember hitting 33, and being like oh no, even if I live to 100 I’ve now got a whole third of my life behind me. I’d made my final decision to transition within the month.
This is the broad vibe of a not insignificant amount of legal scholarship.
Let's address a couple of questions here: 1) is this user toxic? 2) are they making a threat sending trans people to camps? 3) how do you address harassment? 4) how does toxicity currently work? How will it work? Apologies, this should be a blog.
I actually think that just a little bit of racism is completely abhorrent.
‘Outright racist’ activist Daniel Thomas will face ‘full force of law’ over any crimes, says home secretary
Guess who slept for five hours, started working at 4am, and won’t be able to stop until about half nine tonight?
20yo me would simply howl with tears if she saw my life now.
Would 20 y/o you be impressed or disappointed by you today?
Very nice email this afternoon, letting me know that a really great journal has accepted an article - subject to some minor stuff - in which I make the exciting new argument that trans people should have more money.
I think that this photo pretty neatly encapsulates my life.
my groundbreaking investigation has found that Andy Burnham ran the great north run in Brooks Ghost 18s. while a competent daily trainer that provides stability and cushioning for easy miles, it is no way a race shoe. it lacks energy return and is too heavy for race day. Andy Burnham must resign.
googling "Andy Burnham half marathon running shoes"
Trans rights is inherently a bodily autonomy issue. Just like abortion rights is. We can't have gender equity or reproductive freedom without trans rights. Full stop. You can yell at me and make up shit that you claim I've said if it makes you feel better. I don't care. I'm right. And you know it.
NHS Wales’ Joint Commissioning Committee said it had to suddenly stop trans surgeries for an urgent investigation. Several weeks later and it still hasn’t even started investigating yet. Enough’s enough, it’s time to tell the JCC: give us back our healthcare. transactual.org.uk/blog/2026/09...
Take Action to Restore Access to Gender‑Affirming Surgeries in Wales – TransActual
transactual.org.uk
I know I’ve told this story before, but I grew up in poverty and when I was a kid I used to sit in on the textiles teaching my mum did for Zimbabwean asylum seekers.
I just don’t think I would put my name to a work document explaining how to commit an act of conversion therapy within the law AND THEN resign. I just think she’s got the sequencing all wrong there.
One assumption I have always carried with me is that anyone I have heard of but who I do not know is probably a bad person, and it’s their actions as a bad person that have put them in a position where I have heard of them. It doesn’t always work as a heuristic, but it very very often does.
mcbride wants to trade trans rights for a leadership position this is fucking insane but it's not like we didn't warn you
NEW: Llais, the health watchdog for Wales, is investigating the decision by NHS Wales’ Joint Commissioning Committee to indefinitely pause access to gender-affirming surgeries. If you have been affected - they have asked you to share this with them: www.llaiswales.org/news-and-rep...
Update on our work regarding NWJCC’s decision to pause gender-affirming surgery | Llais
Ar ddechrau'r mis hwn, cyhoeddodd Gwasanaeth Rhywedd Cymru - a gomisiynwyd gan Gyd-bwyllgor Comisiynu GIG Cymru (CBCGC) ac a gynhaliwyd gan Fwrdd Iechyd Prifysgol Caerdydd a'r Fro (BIPCAF) - y byddai ...
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i feel confident that one course of action which _isn't_ correct here is "using it as a primary source of communication for government, business, journalism, and higher ed." and yet...........
I know that I pass better than I once did and am also quite pretty. There’s a guy who was so incensed by my being trans that he literally beat me in the street over it last year; but then when he walked past me recently he - despite his obvious motivation to identify trans people - didn’t clock me.
I’m never going to be completely stealth and I’m lucky that I do pass all of the time, but it’s getting to the point where I wonder if some of us are too recognisable from socials and the far right men who doxx people and mock them online will just start sharing our images to incite violence