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@gravekeepr.com

bass music loser https://soundcloud.com/gravekeepr

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David Shepherd @klangkoerner.bsky.social · 4mo ago

Latest track, Enjoy! davidshepherd1.bandcamp.com/track/threads

THREADS, by David Shepherd

track by David Shepherd

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gravekeepr @gravekeepr.com · 2h ago

The amount Suno is being pushed towards musicians via YouTube ads on any music making related videos is nuts. Making the music is supposed to be the fun part. Who is out there watching videos about a cool synthesizer and going "but I could just prompt that"

@staticvrc.bsky.social · 2d ago

S T A T I C 0 6 8 GLOOMSTONE'S BIRTHDAY 08/08/26 9:00 PM ET Poster: G l o o m s t o n e

~@tildesounds.bsky.social · 5d ago

My new album "diversions 2: further attempts at living", an instrumental hiphop beat tape, drops today! you can find it here: www.youtube.com/watch?v=IinM... & here: tildesounds.bandcamp.com soundcloud.com/tilde-sounds... www.subvert.fm/tildesounds/... cover art by: @ascalaphid.com

gravekeepr @gravekeepr.com · 6d ago

Nice to see all the non VR nerd people realizing Palmer Luckey is a piece of shit and buying ModRetro products supports fascism.

Emily Lakdawalla 🏳️‍⚧️ Uranus Expert @elakdawalla.bsky.social · 6d ago

My Take for today is that this site would be more fun if more people used Mute or Block rather than Discourse

gravekeepr @gravekeepr.com · last wk.

I skip anime intros

gravekeepr @gravekeepr.com · last wk.

Doing things slowly for the satisfaction of doing them well.

da share z0ne @dasharez0ne.bsky.social · 2w ago

DISCOURSE - dashare.zone ADMIN

DISCOURSE ISNT REAL,,, JUST NOTCIED I SPELLED IT WRONG IN THE IMAGE SORRY , BUT U KNOW WHAT I MEANT HOPE FULLY, BECASE ITS STILL THE CLOSEST WORD TO WHAT I TYPED, SO U KNOW WHAT IT IS IM PRETTY SURE, THATS ONE OF THE GOOD THING'S ABOUT ENGLISH EVEN THOGH ITS A SHITTY LANGUAGE AND MADE UP OF DUTCH (WORST) AND GEMAN (SECOND WORST) AND A BUCH OF OTHER EUROPEAN CRAP ,AND ITS TOTALLY IRREGULAR AND YOU HAVE TO REMEMBER THE WORD DRINK, ITS NOT "I HAD DRUNKEN THE BEER" ITS "I DRANK THE BEER" AND NOT "DRANKEN " I STILL DONT KNOW HOW TO COJUGATE ALL OF THE WORDS AND ITS MY OWN FUCKEN LANGUAGE SO , WHAT THE FUCK , BUT ITS REDUNDANT ENOUGH THAT IF U SPELL SOMETHING WRONG THEN EVERY ONE STILL KNOWS WHAT U MEAN , AND THEIRE NO REASON TO CORRECT THAT SHYT BECAUSE, IF U UNDERSTOOD IT, THEN ITS NOT SPELT WRONG, SO THINK ABOUT THAT ONE STEVEN HAWKING, ANY WAY "DISCURSE ISNT REAL, ANYONE CAN TYPE, NO ONE HAS TO REPLY " AND ITS A BAD ASSSSS SKELETEN WITH A HORSE THAT THE SKELTENS NOT EVEN SCARED OF, NO ONES SCARED IN THE GRAPHIC, A GREAT WORLD, FULLY UNDER CONTROL, FINALLY I CAN RELAX, I MEA NTHE SKELETIN CAN RELAX - DASHARE.ZONE ADMIN

gravekeepr @gravekeepr.com · 3w ago

I'm massively cutting down on the number of vrc accounts I follow for my own mental health. It's not personal and anyone who wants to unfollow back that's totally fine. I want to engage with people more directly and not through social media profiles. We can still be friends I promise.

gravekeepr @gravekeepr.com · 3w ago

Some thoughts on grief, community, and moving on.

A friend recently told me "Nobody tells you how to grieve someone who isn't dead." I've heard multiple variations of this statement in the past few days. I'm no stranger to grief. My sister committed suicide when I was in my early 20s. That pain never really goes away. It's kind of like the ringing in my ears, it's always there, but it slowly fades into the background until something draws attention to it. Early on those moments are overwhelming, but with time they just become more of a dull ache. I have my regrets over what I could have done to prevent her death. Maybe if I'd said something different she'd still be here. Maybe if l'd supported her more she would have gotten the help she needed. I wasn't there for her in many ways. I didn't believe her. That fear drives a lot of how I act and treat people these days. You never know what someone is going through, and you never know how your words could impact them.

My friendship with 2TD has always been complicated. He has been there for me in some truly awful times. He's supported and encouraged me in a way that has helped give me the courage to actually finish and release music. I've seen him deal with people coming after him and Shelter for some truly bullshit reasons. I've also seen him have completely unproportional blow ups on other people in the scene for their negative actions. I've seen him raise up small artists and bring people together. I've also seen him get completely wrapped up in his own ego and exacerbate conflicts. He has been both the best and the worst of the scene.

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I'm not here to offer my analysis or opinions on what happened. The statements are out there, you can read them. My thoughts on this are complicated and I don't know if I'll ever work it out. I'm writing this because I don't know how to grieve here. I don't know what moving on means in this situation. If Shelter was just another club to you and 2TD was just the guy running it, maybe it's easier for you. For those of us where Shelter was a community, a home, a family, and 2TD was a friend, we are grieving. There is plenty of justified anger floating around. But seeing people direct that anger at each other... Seeing people try to capitalize on a horrible event for their own gain... That has me wanting to walk away from everything.

But in the darkness, there have been some bright spots. I've seen people come together to support each other when they feel hopeless. I've heard some kind words from people who I've had some silly beef with in the past. I have tried to take that kindness and pass it on by mending things with people I've had tension with, or openly communicating when someone says something that upsets me rather than holding it against them. Someone told me they thought this was "very Gravekeepr" of me, but truthfully, it's not. I hold grudges. I let that shit simmer. And that's a heavy fucking burden. But while approaching someone to have an uncomfortable conversation is hard, carrying that burden for years is harder.

To the friends of 2TD, the Shelter community, and anyone who has lost their home and is upset and angry, be kind to each other. Be patient. Everyone is processing this in different ways at different rates. Don't torch your friendships in the heat of the moment. And if you already did, well, maybe build up the courage to talk to that person. Listen to each other with the intention of building understanding, not with the intention of winning the argument.

James, if you're reading this, I hope you can learn and grow from this moment. But I can't be the one to be there for you right now.

Grey, I know we've drifted apart over the years, but I hope you can heal and find some peace and stability in your future.

- grave

gravekeepr @gravekeepr.com · 3w ago

I've received a lot of good advice from some smarter friends so I want to distill this one down for those who need it: You don't need to immediately form an opinion from incomplete information. You are allowed to take as long as you need to process it. You are allowed to say "I don't know."

gravekeepr @gravekeepr.com · 3w ago

I wanna circle back to this. I am a cis man. I thought I might be agender because frankly all the discussions I've seen of masculinity do not match how I feel. There aren't very many good discussions of masculinity or being a man out there that don't enforce toxic gender norms. (cont)

gravekeepr@gravekeepr.com · last mo.

Shout out to all my trans and nb friends for helping me navigate my feelings around gender in a society where I feel almost a visceral disgust to men and masculinity. I've been slowly disentangling myself from the gender expectations I was raised with and having yalls thoughts is super helpful.

DJ MOTHERFUCKER @itsprobablykabu.bsky.social · 3w ago

It should also not be necessary for me to say this, but the moment you use violence that was done someone to push an argument or agenda, all you look like is a fucked up individual. Have some respect instead of using someone's trauma to back up your nonsense or elevate yourself you piece of shit.

strasz @strasz.bsky.social · 3w ago

The best way you can offer others grace (and, truly, yourself) is to just listen with the intent to understand. We all have to do a *lot* more listening, I think.

moethelawn @moethelawn.bsky.social · 3w ago

Using this to shield me from the curses making their way around the scene

gravekeepr @gravekeepr.com · 3w ago

If you have partners that drink you should probably take a moment to consider how that can affect consent.

5 Questions About Alcohol and Consent You're Too Afraid to Ask, Answered - Everyday Feminism

“What if they're BOTH drunk?” Got questions about drinking, sex, and consent? Here are your answers.

everydayfeminism.com

gravekeepr @gravekeepr.com · 3w ago

Finally got my computer hooked up in my new room and I'm just staring at my base stations trying to decide if it's even worth putting them up.

Comfy_Kitten 🏳️‍⚧️@comfykitten.bsky.social · 3w ago

TRIPLE BIRTHDAY@COMFORT Comfy_Kitten X Chroma X Gravekeepr July 17th 2026 9PM (all times US Central) 8:30pm Doors 9pm @zaxman.ca 10pm @tadashieto.bsky.social 11pm @aeronocturne.bsky.social 12am @strasz.bsky.social 1am @chevettevr.bsky.social 2am Open Decks 18+ Poor or better Group+ (COMF.9259)

gravekeepr @gravekeepr.com · 4w ago

Sometimes you just gotta walk through Trader Joe's and put everything in your cart that has the potential to give you dopamine.

gravekeepr @gravekeepr.com · 4w ago

I see we've hit the "I saw a club called drunk anime titties use an AI poster" part of the discourse cycle

gravekeepr @gravekeepr.com · 4w ago

The eventual Brandon FM video on VR prostitutes where he tries to pick up VR sex workers is gonna send me into orbit.

Emmathyst @emma.bunny.church · 4w ago

Pre-VRCDN this was prevalent in the scene! Everyone streamed through twitch and there were a lot more “Twitch DJ” types around, so people just used their systems to tip. Not unheard of for busy slot weekend DJs to take home a hundred bucks during a set. Worth VRC themselves replicating someday IMO.