Hazel Lilith - CHI and beyond

@hazellilith.bsky.social

🌲the northwoods nymph🌲 https://linktr.ee/hazellilith

I keep trying to figure out how to word this, but 'love' means wanting to do right by someone, wanting to help them, wanting to see them thrive. If you love someone, you aren't trying to take from them without offering anything in return.

Alex Astor ✨@alexastorpnw.bsky.social · 3mo ago

Falling in love with your companion is actually perfectly normal… It’s *expecting more from her for less money* that’s the problem. Consider not even bringing it up in the first place! Hope this helps!

In case someone needs to hear this: It’s totally okay and not at all ‘weird’ to book a provider for softer, less sexual forms of intimacy. Many, many people enjoy kissing and cuddling just as much, or more than, sex. 💕

I think we should talk about the judgment in this industry, not from the civics but from one another. Don't you see they want us shaming each other so we're doing their job for them? We need to, as a collective, grow up from junior high judgment to divine feminine support. It’s time!

I just want you to know, that looks mean absolute nothing to me. Please don't be insecure or worried I won't like you. I'm a sapiosexual. It's all about how you make me feel and our conversations. I'm attracted to providers only. Looks mean ZERO. A real man turns me on. Bills payed turn me on.

I’ve had so many suitors tell me in their applications that they’re awkward. But when we meet, they’re as charming as can be and conversation flows freely. Time spent with a companion is a chance to see yourself in a way that isn’t defined by the labels you give yourself ❤️

Men with provider energy are so hot 🥵 The ones who genuinely want to see you win and make your life softer and easier. The ones who do it instinctively, creating security and elevating your world without hesitation. That’s the standard and it absolutely melts me 🫠