helly🪷

@helena.boutique

unsmart lady

there’s a kind of vandalism people do online to women as whole ass persons when they take a picture or a video of a woman just doing cool shit that’s not meant to be seen as something lewd and flatten her to an object to horny-post about because she’s hot

achieving a goal you’ve been obsessively chasing for years is wild bc there’s the joy and elation, but also a surprisingly consuming emptiness. like ok now what

the couple weeks back at work since surgery are the first in a long time it’s felt like i have provided value dysphoria sure uses up a lot of cognitive overhead, even with coping mechanisms

ate a whole bag of tangfastics journaling about what’s probably stupid abandonment issues, in case ur wondering how much of my shit i have together

if i have my sexual orientation listed as lesbian, tinder should not show me 54yo bald dudes named stu. i believe we have the technology to make this happen

Something almost everyone has gotten backwards is that the diagnosis of "transsexual" was *invented* for the purpose of justifying medical treatment under the axiom that you can't give medicine to a healthy person. It was a means to an end. The only purpose for "being trans" was to get HRT/SRS/etc

one of my friends has tween kids who are huge potterheads, and i *really* don’t want to be a bummer about it but also i have self respect, so. it’s awkward

we need to stop calling them anti-trans orgs and call them anti-feminist orgs instead, on account of that’s what they are these are not separate struggles