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@helena.boutique

unsmart lady

sucks the 2022 saint’s row reboot didn’t have the sauce, it was nice having a gta alternative that was exactly as juvenile but understood the assignment

Although rarely recognized as such, this is spot-on in my experience as a transsex woman: Non-transsex-centered queer theory is fundamentally divorced from empirical reality. It amounts in practice to transsex erasure (or compels it), beginning with *a compete epistemicide of our lived realities*.

Uboa@uboatheflesh.bsky.social · last mo.

Non-transsexual queer theory has been a disaster for neurodivergent people and transsexual people. Transsexuals would still be their "gender" or neurological sex after the complete abolition of patriarchy, or if one of us was the only human left. The performance is the closet, not our gender.

there’s a kind of vandalism people do online to women as whole ass persons when they take a picture or a video of a woman just doing cool shit that’s not meant to be seen as something lewd and flatten her to an object to horny-post about because she’s hot

achieving a goal you’ve been obsessively chasing for years is wild bc there’s the joy and elation, but also a surprisingly consuming emptiness. like ok now what

the couple weeks back at work since surgery are the first in a long time it’s felt like i have provided value dysphoria sure uses up a lot of cognitive overhead, even with coping mechanisms

ate a whole bag of tangfastics journaling about what’s probably stupid abandonment issues, in case ur wondering how much of my shit i have together

if i have my sexual orientation listed as lesbian, tinder should not show me 54yo bald dudes named stu. i believe we have the technology to make this happen

Something almost everyone has gotten backwards is that the diagnosis of "transsexual" was *invented* for the purpose of justifying medical treatment under the axiom that you can't give medicine to a healthy person. It was a means to an end. The only purpose for "being trans" was to get HRT/SRS/etc