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unfortunately, if you’re gonna pose yourself as a friend group or community leader, you need to be prepared to act with nuance and fact-finding before ousting or giving up on people. believe me, your friends and community members all hurt when you go trigger happy with blocking or bad-mouthing.

✨Beam-Stoat Willy✨ θ∆@rosphix.bsky.social · 3w ago

having just been nearby a situation where this was relevant a lot of you don't realize that blocking people in your own community breaks up friend groups creates a lot of needless drama and creates I N S A N E L Y awkward situations at cons you're too high off "BLOCK FOR ANY REASON" type shit

ac was yet another reminder that cons are just not sufficient enough, on their own, to be the core of meaningful socializing and community building. it’s chaos and pageantry, which is so fun and important. but it won’t fill all your social and community needs. that work happens elsewhere.