Commodore — Vic/Todd/& 🏳️‍⚧️

@kinktodd.com

18+ 🔞 NSFW occasionally, grey ace but kinky: gear, BDSM, nudism, pup play, and other topics here. Quite well into my dad era. Adult media/porn properly labeled. DMs OK. Plural; they/he/any. Links: kinktodd.com

I've always been the "human encyclopedia" wherever I worked, because my autism is to learn how everything works under the hood. A co-worker cheekily said I was a "more accurate AI than LLMs", after I answered a head-scratcher question in detail. I'm feeling equally complimented and insulted. 😆

There's a reason I talk so much about building community. Empathy of scale is being systematically destroyed, by politicians intent on dismantling social support and empowerment programs, replacing them with for-profit pale imitations. We have to fight that, and support each other where we can.

Commodore — Vic/Todd/& 🏳️‍⚧️@kinktodd.com · 7mo ago

The pinnacle of human achievement isn't science or technology. It's empathy. The safer modern world *enables* us to be more empathetic. Some hateful people want to take safety away and reduce us to heartless, desperate creatures. Don't let them. Support others, and embrace what makes us all human.

We need to fix how we talk about men. It’s not like the police where you can just say ACAB. The men aren’t the problem. The systems are. It’s possible to give men the space to be vulnerable, to work together to dismantle the systems of patriarchy in a way that’s fucking healthy. 3/

We commemorate the 250th anniversary of this nation by carrying on the American tradition of dissent. Challenging those in power is woven into the very fabric of our nation.

Blue graphic with white text reading "dissent is patriotic" and red columns with white stars on the right and left sides

🧵 context: Someone showed that they could call Recon APIs to find out someone's precise location. This isn't news! Anybody can do that through triangulation, with ANY hookup app that gives precise enough distance measurements. BE CAREFUL when allowing hookup apps to use your GPS location.

Commodore — Vic/Todd/& 🏳️‍⚧️@kinktodd.com · 2mo ago

If you allow a hookup app to show your distance to other people, you can be located to a pretty high degree of accuracy. I demonstrated that I could tell somebody which ROOM OF A HOUSE that they were in. The API calls might make it easier, but the distance PRECISION is the underlying problem.

One of the most heartwarming parts of being seen as a #queer elder is when someone asks for advice when they're discovering new parts of their identity. There's often fear of rejection mixed in with uncertainty fears. Never underestimate the power of "Yes, you're normal. I've been there too."

As of today, this guy has a Bachelor of Fine Arts degree for art just like (and including) this one. I'm so damned happy for him. If you want to see more in the future, follow him, or see his art feed: bsky.app/profile/did:...

Jay 🏍️🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈@jesse-j-gear.art · last yr.

It’s #pridemonth. Some of the first folks stepping up for LGBTQ+ rights were the kink and fetish community. ✊🏼✊🏼 Excluding kink from pride is sanitation of our roots. We don’t exist to be homogeneous and to conform. Be you. 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️ #queerart #screenprinting #printmaking #art #fetish #kink #pride

A photo of a screen print.
On the left black text reads “Kink Belongs At Pride”
On the right are various people depicted in various kink clothing. The background contains a very faint inverted pink triangle.

It really says something when even retail stores aren't buying into the "America 250" thing. Must be an embarrassment for them. The supposedly patriotic merch sections of stores seem to be pathetically small this year, and I'm here for it. I'm seeing bigger Pride merch displays in some stores.