Commodore — Vic/Todd/& 🏳️⚧️
@kinktodd.com
18+ 🔞 NSFW occasionally, grey ace but kinky: gear, BDSM, nudism, pup play, and other topics here. Quite well into my dad era. Adult media/porn properly labeled. DMs OK. Plural; they/he/any. Links: kinktodd.com
I've always been the "human encyclopedia" wherever I worked, because my autism is to learn how everything works under the hood. A co-worker cheekily said I was a "more accurate AI than LLMs", after I answered a head-scratcher question in detail. I'm feeling equally complimented and insulted. 😆
I know he hasn't done as much for us as many of the the queer community have wanted — yet — but fuuuck, this is the level of modern, slick marketing that the left really needs right now. This is what positive populism looks like.
If it looks like an Amazon delivery and drives like an Amazon delivery, then it's an Amazon delivery, right? Not according to Amazon. Big companies like Amazon have built a vast network of subcontractors who deliver their packages while shielding them from accountability.
realizing that overcoming my neurospicy fears of talking on a telephone just shifted the problem, because I always use voice to text transcription when messaging with my phone, rather than just sending a voice message directly
The moment we forget our past, and the people who paved the way for us, is the moment we stop fighting to maintain the rights they rioted for. Throwing others under the bus only helps our oppression #puppyplay #humanpup #gaypup #gaypuppy #paddedpup
Trans rights is just basically the right to repair but for your own body and identity.
There's a reason I talk so much about building community. Empathy of scale is being systematically destroyed, by politicians intent on dismantling social support and empowerment programs, replacing them with for-profit pale imitations. We have to fight that, and support each other where we can.
The pinnacle of human achievement isn't science or technology. It's empathy. The safer modern world *enables* us to be more empathetic. Some hateful people want to take safety away and reduce us to heartless, desperate creatures. Don't let them. Support others, and embrace what makes us all human.
Feels nice to be back in my house after a week of a totally cursed motel and two whole days on the road I want to sleep for 100 hours but I have to work today mehhhh
Apparently my grandfather's vintage (now "antique"?) Lionel train set dating to post-WWII (probably from 1948-1951) still exists and probably still works (it did as recently as 2016). Autism restoration project commencing.
This is a serious problem in cis gay male spaces and it deserves to be called out. My generation (GenX) is particularly guilty of this. We have to make a point to be welcoming without infantilizing. More in the 🧵.
I feel the need to say something. I feel rejected from cis gay spaces a lot of the time. Or perceived as less than. I’m a top without a “real” dick. In queer spaces, my gender isn’t “fucked” enough. I’m too close to *real* men. I used to use He/They. To fit in. I dropped it. 2/
We need to fix how we talk about men. It’s not like the police where you can just say ACAB. The men aren’t the problem. The systems are. It’s possible to give men the space to be vulnerable, to work together to dismantle the systems of patriarchy in a way that’s fucking healthy. 3/
NEW VIDEO! Starfleet Academy was good actually, screw the outrage merchants! youtu.be/-hoOxIPyBUc
Starfleet Academy Was Good Actually, Screw the Outrage Merchants
YouTube video by Jessie Gender
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I haven't been reading as much lately as I used to, and I'm trying to change that. Finally got around to @chucktingle.bsky.social's Bury Your Gays and… while it has traditional horror elements in it, it's not horror like you think. BYG hits back (and hits home) in ways you won't see coming. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐
We commemorate the 250th anniversary of this nation by carrying on the American tradition of dissent. Challenging those in power is woven into the very fabric of our nation.
I considered staying overnight at an AANR listed resort, at one point during this road trip, but in this heat I'd have to *bathe* in sunscreen to avoid baking to a crisp, so... Yeah, not this time around. #nudism
I need to know. Where are the other trans men/trans masc bikers? I know of so many trans women on motorcycles, but I can’t be the only guy out here! #motosky
🧵 context: Someone showed that they could call Recon APIs to find out someone's precise location. This isn't news! Anybody can do that through triangulation, with ANY hookup app that gives precise enough distance measurements. BE CAREFUL when allowing hookup apps to use your GPS location.
If you allow a hookup app to show your distance to other people, you can be located to a pretty high degree of accuracy. I demonstrated that I could tell somebody which ROOM OF A HOUSE that they were in. The API calls might make it easier, but the distance PRECISION is the underlying problem.
One of the most heartwarming parts of being seen as a #queer elder is when someone asks for advice when they're discovering new parts of their identity. There's often fear of rejection mixed in with uncertainty fears. Never underestimate the power of "Yes, you're normal. I've been there too."
Cyndi is one of the most underappreciated artists. Should have been bigger than Madonna, tbh. She's a queer icon for a reason.
Happy Birthday, Cyndi Lauper! 🎶 What's one of your favorite Cyndi Lauper songs? 🎶 Born in NYC on June 22, 1951, Cyndi is a singer, songwriter, and actress known for her activism. On October 14, 1983, Lauper released her first solo album, She's So Unusual. The album became a worldwide hit, peaking 👇
"How do I get this thing to lean?" 😁 It's been five years since I rode a vehicle with fewer than four wheels. For complicated reasons, I'm not willing to be on two wheels again just yet, but I agreed to rent this for the day to go on a wonderful outing with @jesse-j-gear.art. Yes… I missed it.
Playing 4 player pinball with your own headmates is such a vibe, switching between player rotations #pluralgang
Browsing through a #motogear store today and I REALLY don't like the new Fox Racing logo. With the block text and rectangular aligned head, it feels like the homogenized, bland corporate aesthetic bleeding the life out of all other parts of society right now. It has absolutely no soul.
As of today, this guy has a Bachelor of Fine Arts degree for art just like (and including) this one. I'm so damned happy for him. If you want to see more in the future, follow him, or see his art feed: bsky.app/profile/did:...
It’s #pridemonth. Some of the first folks stepping up for LGBTQ+ rights were the kink and fetish community. ✊🏼✊🏼 Excluding kink from pride is sanitation of our roots. We don’t exist to be homogeneous and to conform. Be you. 🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️ #queerart #screenprinting #printmaking #art #fetish #kink #pride
I have definitively put the "bi" vs "pan" thing to rest by creating the ultimate combination of the two 𝞹sexual thank you and good night
Even when traveling by air, always remember, safety first!
It really says something when even retail stores aren't buying into the "America 250" thing. Must be an embarrassment for them. The supposedly patriotic merch sections of stores seem to be pathetically small this year, and I'm here for it. I'm seeing bigger Pride merch displays in some stores.