In the spooky season mood, want to be my damsel in distress? Pic by Josef Desade
Lady Elizabeth
@ladyelizabeth.bsky.social
Professor of pain: anthropologist, servant trainer, intimacy & relationship coach. Connecticut Domina. PhD. ladyelizabeth (d0t) net
Going through old photos on this dreary day, found this cool snapshot.
Smartpak Equine has a labor day sale! It's a great time to send gift cards to the equestrian domme in your life.
Y'all, I started playing Star Wars Zero Company and made the hottest character. It's a diff style of game than I normally play but I couldn't turn down the chance to be a Mirialan!
This photo represents my village: @laser2sail.bsky.social got me the fire table @subtextualized.bsky.social put it together service pup painted the deck @ladyesnyslave.bsky.social manicured the lawn I feel incredibly blessed to be so well served by such a caring kink family.
Speaking as someone with multiple degrees in anthropology, there are so many assumptions in academics that need to be questioned. Glad to see things changing.
For many years, it was assumed that the prehistoric cave paintings of people, mammoths and hunting scenes were created by men. Analysis of the handprints often used to "sign" these paintings now suggest that most of the artists were women. #CelebratingWomen
The first dungeon I rented had belonged to Mir! I was lucky to connect with her early in my journey.
Talking about my early days in the community and I thought of the first Domina I ever knelt before. #MistressMir
This is really good, and really accurate.
From the past: PSA: D/s doesn’t magic away normal human behaviour
This shot from Josef Desade looks like it should be an album cover. What kind of music though?
More shiny latex catsuit hotness from my recent shoot with Josef Desade!
Since I'm often asked, I want to share a useful link for folks who are new to chastity. CBX makes fantastic little locks that are secure, safe for emergencies, and numbered for accountability. I use them a lot: cb-x.com/collections/...
Single-Use Individually Numbered Plastic locks
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Kink education. Long distance relationship capabilities. Gaming. Medical research. What would you add that's gotten better? We could all use some positive thoughts these days.
Food, man. Food is so much better than it was in 1986. All of it. Poor-people food, restaurant food, fresh food, frozen food. Food is just a hell of a lot better.
Showing off some of my toy collection! Photo credit Josef Desade
Site updates coming soon, but in the meantime check out this banger of a photo from this week's shoot with Josef Desade!
Not my jam but it seems like this could save a lot of lives if people knew about it!
Street drugs are cheaper and stronger than they’ve ever been, and they’re far more likely to kill you. The government’s advice hasn’t changed much since Nancy Reagan, but drugs have. Now, scientists are writing their own rules and we have a guide here. Read more: www.playboy.com/read/politic...
I just donated to @leatherarchives.bsky.social as they seek to remodel their facility. It's a worthy kinky cause: leatherarchives.org/renovation/#...
Leather Archives & Museum Renovation Project
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Happy 4th y'all! Hope everyone is staying safe and cool.
Yeah fuck this "virtually normal" nonsense.
Ending the Pride month strong, New York Times!
So true. We all have real lives outside of kink and every relationship is a unique building process.
So many people over complicate what a BDSM relationship is, imagining that it must be a very orderly operation with an onboarding period where you are (formally) trained and strict oversight, expanding to fill every inch of the time you have together and apart.
Tshirt from The Chamber, the club in Atlanta where I discovered kink. It hangs in a shadowbox on my dungeon wall.
Question I've never seen on here and I keep forgetting to ask: What the oldest tshirt you own?
This is a really powerful mindset to remember. Each day is such a gift; do something that brings you joy.
Never forget: all the days you get to have are big.
It’s not hyperbole that part of what kept the queer liberation movement going in the Reagan era was the partying part of the “bury your friends in the morning, protest in the afternoon, and dance at night” schedule. Without joy there is no air left to fight
Fascism's a fever you break with shit like what happened in New York last night. Create more excuses to feel things like that together.
My pretty new dress from @laser2sail.bsky.social matches my medical room! Forgot to post this the other night.
PSA: Bluesky's new auto-tagging moderation stuff is a disaster. Disable it. Go into Settings on the Bluesky site and enable adult content and set everything to Warn at most, which makes posts opt-in. Hide just vanishes posts. Then go into Advanced/Bluesky Mod Service and do the same on everything.