what's a good healthy coping mechanism to try for someone just getting into healthy coping mechanisms

I'm so tired. Fatigue really breaking me rn

The original guidance was as close as you can get to a common sense intergration and balancing of everyone's collective and individual rights to dignity and privacy. Which is why they had to get rid of it.

Dave Andress@davidandress.bsky.social · 14h ago

In 2011, the UK government response to antitrans provocations was "Don't be so bloody stupid".

Urge to re-download the face app that makes you go insane v strong today. Think it is getting stronger because of some tough work conversations? Idk

This is the perfect Mischa skeet to me in that it got me more furious withering glares than likes. The quintessence of The Annoying Beloved in skeet form

🏳️‍⚧️ Mischa chimes in:@memelessmischa.bsky.social · 4mo ago

"dystopia" is what my londoner gfs say when they want to draw my attention to some taupe

We have also written a detailed legal explainer about why we think the code of practice gets the law wrong.

How the Code of Practice gets the law wrong | Good Law Project

We’re supporting a legal challenge against the government’s transphobic statutory guidance – here’s why

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Fuck the EHRC, fuck Labour, fuck the Supreme Court, and fuck everybody else that made it happen or stood by and did nothing

this is the first time I've been (knowingly) poly while someone I love is away and it is *so weird* being lonely about someone while you're not actually alone

A few weeks back I did some bits with a toy animal at bedtime; then cos they landed I did em again. Cut to now: each night my 38-year-old partner of 15 years looks at the toy with the avidity of a hawk and if I don't have a 5 minute puppetry sketch ready to go I see crushed dreams in her eyes

Teaching the cat doomscrolling

Get to know Alice through these nice facts that she consistently cannot keep within bounds of the exercise due to being insufficiently dull or mundane

Dr Malice@atarbuck.bsky.social · 2d ago

1 like = 1 completely dull mundane fact about me

Seen one too many attractive photographs today and so I have decided to become a chaser

Short of breath again. Yesterday I thought I was getting better. Spins and breathing trouble today. No doc appt until the 14th. Tedious.

Just did something so foolish and dangerous I am genuinely furious with myself. Tried to lean on a ladder near the staircase to reach a high up area with nobody else in the house on a dizzyish day. By dumb luck I slid forward when I got light headed. Very stupid!! Be cross with stupid Mischa!!!!

I bet it's so fun being a gutter runner. Doing your little rat parkour. Eshin squad doing their cool flips all with thought bubbles that say hooray-yippee! but they can't say it out loud cos of toxic skavulinity

🎶 Cob-Wight Cob-Wight Where the cob doth, there doth he Any size of web he spinneth

Judge John Dredd

According to the parliamentary annual report & accounts for the 2025/26 financial year, the cost of subsidising the bars in the House of Commons alone was around £5.8 million. Meanwhile, to save £3 million less than that, Jodrell Bank is being defunded and shut down. share.google/MRHIvCsCsKoc...

Jodrell Bank's Lovell telescope faces axe in science cuts, BBC understands

Astronomers warn it would tear the heart out of UK science, and leave a generation untrained.

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A dark day for human rights.

Jesus Christ these guys are supposed to stand up to people committing genocides and Rowling threatens a lawsuit and they simply decide we aren’t worth it

Lee Hurley@hleehurley.com · 6d ago

Amnesty have issued an apology to JK Rowling and the rest. Adjust your expectations, and donations, accordingly www.amnesty.org.uk/latest/an-ap...

If Amnesty is afraid to call anti-rights groups anti-rights, they are no longer fit for purpose.

Daydreaming of having a surgical pocket made I can fit my phone into even when I'm nude and realising technically I'd already have done this if I'm not a coward about it

Starting to think my girlfriend might be sincere when she says she thinks I'm hot. Very mysterious

Why does my childless cis male friend already get my domperidone joke. Why does he always already have the context for the jokes

cis person: i’m just concerned about women’s sports other cis people: reasonable! trans person: i’m just concerned about restrictions on passports and id, job discrimination, movement being restricted due to bathroom issues, being harassed or worse, etc cis people: you’re being hysterical

Managed to message in still sick BEFORE I was sent home in a taxi this time which I think is maybe progress? Anyway too weak to get in the shower but might try wfh if I can perk up and get a device dropped off by a colleague-cum-angel.

I'm struggling to find much patience for this body situation. Life is good and the weather is great, and the thing stopping me from getting out there and enjoying it is for once not in my head. It's infuriating. I have a nice new puss, I should be out there showing it to people 😠

Don Frue vs Yoshihiro Takayama (2002) #critterposting

Rii Abrego@riibrego.bsky.social · last wk.

new cat tree is going well

Scratch that, fatigue genuinely was too bad, lost my thread in the middle of a sentence and when I noticed I'd been spacing everyone was doing "is she okay" eyes at each other and next conversation was about how they were calling me a taxi to go home

🏳️‍⚧️ Mischa chimes in:@memelessmischa.bsky.social · last wk.

Fatigue pretty bad so I'll obviously blame that but it's a shame I can't tell my boss the real reason I'm going to end up being late for work, which is that I just really really didn't want to take off my comfy new pyjamas