Mister Obi
@misterobi.bsky.social
Kinky Dom - Caring sadist - happy bf of @_kiki_kinky - Romeo: mister_obi - Recon: MisterObi - NSFW 🔞 - He, him, his - 📍Brussels
Rant incoming on AI and consent.... So by coincidence this week, 3 separate people have ended up sending me AI-ified photos of me. And that's *really* not okay.
Very interesting reading and framework.
This guy is writing some of the most interesting pieces about kink I've read in a while. BED+D: Towards a Structural Theory of Power-Exchange Kink (Part 1/2) mstrq.substack.com/p/bedd-towar... BED+D: Toward a Structural Theory of Power-Exchange Kink (Part 2/2) mstrq.substack.com/p/bedd-towar...
Indeed, I have the same approach, my sadism, my Dominance does not come with an outfit. Yet, to get access to some clubs, an outfit is required. It's very frustrating sometimes.
the dress code at the gay bdsm bar is very funny to me because firstly im sorry but my sadism does not come with an outfit, i am a pervert not a superhero
I’m seeing more photos of suspension bondage these days but no mention of suspension trauma and mitigation. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Suspens... I think you should be doing it so that the sub can push their feet back against a solid object (wall) and limiting time suspended. Are people doing this?
Suspension trauma - Wikipedia
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Coming soon! Will you be there? Ben je erbij? Info and registration: www.ultimate-dream.nl/ultimate-bou...
Nothing hotter than observing a boy slowly going deeper and deeper, submitting more and more with each act, which each obeyed order. That’s my role as Dom/Sir to do my best to help him fall as deep as possible.
And with every stroke, every sniff, every command you execute, you sink deeper and deeper into the obedience you thrive on. The obedience you want. That you need. Keep circling. Keep obeying. Keep falling. D•H #dieherrschaft #leatherdom #findom
The party with lots of space and opportunities to play! Want to join? Register on the website! www.ultimate-dream.nl/ultimate-bou...
Feels obvious but apparently a needed PSA
Ok PSA on behalf of all the dogs & pups out there… (as a new convert) 🐾 Some dogs / pups immerse themselves into the headspace & that means they don’t speak they only bark/whine etc (you know dog noises) it’s not an affront or anything like that and we are not being rude. Please accept this! Ta😃
Die Bondageguys sind bereit für die Eröffnung des neuen „#Bondage Workplace Mainz“ 🪢 Bondageguys are ready for Sunday‘s opening of the new „#Bondage Workplace Mainz“ ropestuff.de
FFS kinkster! Stop using these new blow-up collars! They are neither a safe nor a gradual way for breath control but fucking dangerous and lethal in ways you probably did not think off! toytorture.com/warning-agai...
Warning Against the Use of Pump-Up Collars – ToyTorture.com
toytorture.com
For me, it’s more the chair I use to put my feet on and set them up on a boy 😈
The hotel cuck chair looks sad
This is a public service announcement for the locked boys out there. Especially so if you have a foreskin. 24/7 locked does not mean 24/7 locked. And no, it’s not cheating. Wash yourselves daily and your cage at least once a week. @kink3d.com
My version would be: and that’s how switch are born. One day, a Dom is curious enough about how a flogger feels to ask a friend to try it. 😂
I've just been reminded of what I used to have pinned on my Twitter profile. "... that's how switches are born - one day a sub can just no longer be arsed to put their own boots on."
Hello, perverts in my phone. Do you have any recommendations of dildo for throat training? Brand and model? Looking for regular cock size, long enough to enter the throat but not wanting to say hello to the stomach, flexible.
Easter Berlin is over And it’s been another great event for me. @quaelgeist.bsky.social was as welcoming as usual. So nice to feel surrounded by likeminded folks. @gxusm.bsky.social is a great Dom. I felt very challenged but at the same time safe and cared for. Thank you for the experience Sir 😊
You forgot nap after eating, Sir 😜. But beside that, I agree totally. Time spent at @quaelgeist.bsky.social is always amazing.
How to have a great time in Berlin, according to me: Sleep, eat, @quaelgeist.bsky.social, repeat.
Warning for those traveling to Berlin this WE, planing to do #chemsex: there's a new substance called NEP being sold as Speed, 3mmc or Mephedron. It is much stronger, lasts longer & has a higher toxicity! If you buy white powder drugs, start with ⅓ of your dose Please be safe & warn others!
Also I keep saying it because not enough people know, the risks from breath control are not “just” from lack of oxygen. It carries a very high risk of triggering a type of heart attack that is very difficult to treat. Please read up and be aware.
Hot sounds are hot 😈
Aren’t these balls appealing for ballbusting ? Cock trapped underneath, the balls are the only part that pops out of the codpiece hole. The ballstretcher prevent them from escaping, and present them right to @sirstarkch.bsky.social for a painful treatment. Thank you Sir 🍒
Friendly reminder to set aside some time to practice some wellness exercises, find self-awareness, and contextualize your emotions through retrospection and extrospection 🫶
End of year reminder that January is literally the worst possible month for you to randomly decide that you're 'going to go for a run every single day'. Do yoga or some shit that lets you exercise indoors.
Found out one of these was at MFF. Wish I could say I'm flattered, but I'm not. This hood is a part of my identity and has personal and spiritual significance to me. It fucking sucks to see it as Temu slop and even more that people in the community would support it. Get your own damn face people.
Just a reminder with the holidays coming up that you don’t owe your family that visit. You owe yourself being safe and happy. You can get support from lgbt.foundation And you can always call the Samaritans: ☎️ 116 123
LGBT Foundation – A national charity with LGBTQ+ health and wellbeing at the heart of everything we do.
A national charity with LGBTQ+ health and wellbeing at the heart of everything we do.
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It’s happening: Manchester Pride Protest is back for 2026 Sat 29th August (Bank holiday weekend). Meet 10am Castlefield Bowl. Depart 11am for protest parade through Manchester. No companies. No political parties. No terfs. Come join us and let’s take pride back!🏳️🌈🏳️⚧️
Just a little holiday PSA. Be good to each other. Dad said. 🤟🏼