It’s national coming out day, and even if you don’t come out today, maybe it’s the day you put some thought into it. You’re not deciding what to be. You already are. You’re deciding whether you have to carry it alone.
it’s national coming out day and yours will be a lot happier if you do. yes, even now. there’s no air in the closet. and if a trans person comes out to you, and you’re cis, “thank you for trusting me. what can i do to support you?” works just fine.