opal nova

@opalnova.bsky.social

in no particular order: houseplant, audiobooks, design, nature, dog, city, book (futurism, dystopia, scifi, fantasy) disability, art, neurodivergent, transit, foraging, progressive, language, fashion, wife & mom content from portland, oregon. she/they.

I check Facebook 1-2x a month for family stuff. Turns out a few days ago my dad made a long post begging for understanding about trans people by his fellow boomers. Last paragraphs are below. Dad doesn’t always get it 100% right. He doesn’t need to. He loves and defends me; that’s all that matters

H. I have a trans daughter. She struggled to learn who she was.
She finally " got it" several years ago and has transitioned into a beautiful adult woman. I've seen the struggle up close. She has been mocked and beaten for being herself. I love her.
Personally I dont think I have the strength of character to do as she has, should I have been in that circumstance.
G. And finally..l just had to get this off my chest as I read, see and overhear uneducated, bigoted posts, stories, and conversation. Here's a testimony of a parent of a beautiful child..there are more of us than you know.
Hope this helps.
If I offends you..buh bye.
If you learned something..youre welcome.
IYKYK. PEACE AND LOVE ARE THE ONLY ANSWERS.

a week ago i thrifted a dress that kinda accidentally matched the book that i’m reading and dn’t notice until i was on the bus this morning, reading the last part. i even wore a brown cardigan & shoes. i found this necklace in a box of beads my sister let us use & texted her to ask permission 1/2

i slept really hard last night and dreamed. i had to take a flight with our entire family. packing and transportation was challenging. we didn’t have enough luggage. there were thieves. an elder needed to inexplicably bring dirty floor mats. then i was separated from the group. 1

Remember when David Hogg was running for DNC chair and the establishment stepped in and said we needed a responsible adult and then gave us Ken Martin, who throws his phone at his staffers? Also the DNC is $2 million in debt. But centrists still demand they should be in charge.

the rough estimate that i have spent on dental care as an adult is approximately 30k. this doesn’t include wages lost for times when a non-remote job with better pay wouldn’t be attainable or manageable. we really need better, all encompassing healthcare for people.

i just finished widows bay, s1. i really liked it. it’s spooky but also silly and was renewed for s2. matthew rhys is in everything i have watched lately.

season one of beef: used text/cell phones somewhat sparingly. season two of beef: reading a novel of texts & even what the character is googling. i don’t wanna. just advance the plot in other ways. or make it a period/costume drama.

The Dutch have been studying bio-resilient cities for the past decade, protect existing trees in paving projects (often taking car lanes to give #trees more room to grow), and have added 1000s of new trees when improving bike lanes. The result in Utrecht is a cooler, more beautiful city to bike in.

it’s a beautiful night. i am pleased with this temperature. i found something i want to mail my aunt today, so i ironed it. outside of a few small chores, it’s thankfully another lazy day.