Our most recent TLC Newsletter spotlights @pauleastwick.bsky.social and his new book Bonded by Evolution. Learn more about his inspiration in writing the book and the insights he is excited to share here:
Paul Eastwick
@pauleastwick.bsky.social
Psychology Professor @ UC Davis studying attraction, relationships, and human evolution. New podcast: lovefactuallypod.com
Thanks to Psychology Today for publishing one of my favorite bits of Bonded by Evolution as an excerpt! www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/bond...
Networks Are the Best Matchmakers
Personal Perspective: How I learned to stop worrying and love the friend zone.
psychologytoday.com
I was STUNNED that this model ended up being the winner. No Big 5, or Big 3, or Big Anything. Relationships measures capture positivity, layered on top of item-specific content. That's it. It feels like we need to start developing new measures from square one.
And then finally, it was possible we would find that all of the different relationship measures primarily tap into a single, global construct, with no distinct, substantive factors remaining. (6/12)
New paper, out this week in PLOS One, suggests that most close relationship self-report measures are primarily capturing relationship quality 🧵 journals.plos.org/plosone/arti...
Predicting relationship quality with itself? A single general factor captures most of the variance across 34 common relationship measures
In relationship science, researchers have generated a wide array of constructs and corresponding self-report measures to characterize, explain, and predict relationship quality – the foremost studied ...
journals.plos.org
As a kid growing up in Massachusetts, THE paper was The Boston Globe. Needless to say, it's pretty cool that they published my op-ed about gender differences!
A myth about dating troubles for high-earning women - The Boston Globe
Supposedly, women aren’t into men who make less money than they do, and vice versa. But it’s not really true.
bostonglobe.com
Chatting with @justinlehmiller.bsky.social is always a blast!
If dating were just about finding someone who checks all your boxes, relationships would be easy. They’re not. @pauleastwick.bsky.social is on the show to discuss why compatibility is more complicated than we think. www.sexandpsychology.com/blog/podcast...
The @NextBigIdeaClub team has selected BONDED BY EVOLUTION as a monthly must-read!
Your Relationship Isn't a Product, It's a Project
Why love isn’t something you find on a marketplace—it’s something two people build over time.
open.substack.com
Great news! Now through 1/1/26 when you preorder Bonded by Evolution at Barnes & Noble, B&N Rewards and Premium Members get 25% off. Premium Members get an additional 10% off physical books. Coupon code PREORDER25 www.barnesandnoble.com/w/bonded-by-... #BNPreorder @BarnesandNoble.com
Had a blast chatting with Larry and Robin! @wgnmorningnews
Life Lessons from Holiday Movies
YouTube video by WGN News
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You may have heard that Trump’s extortion of University of California was defeated in court. But do you know who won this historic case? Spoiler: not a single UC administrator participated. It was all faculty members of the UC Faculty Associations and @aaup.org! Cc: @veenadubal.bsky.social
Behind the Scenes: How UC Faculty Beat Back Trump's Attacks
YouTube video by UC Faculty
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Are you a US-based PhD student WITHOUT summer funding who is interested in adolescent development, trans youth, and/or gender? Reach out to me about applying to join my lab in Summer 2026 for the VIPS program! psych.princeton.edu/diversity/vi...
Visiting Internship for Ph.D. Students (VIPS) Program
The VIPS program is an initiative of the DEI committee of the Department of Psychology at Princeton University. VIPS will support up to 4 Ph.D. students who are full-time students at other universitie...
psych.princeton.edu
doomers: there’s not going to be elections in America ever again me: if they can’t even cancel an entertainer due to popular pushback what the fuck makes you think they can cancel elections
“Alpha status is more like a temporary job role than an innate characteristic of the leading individual” www.livescience.com/animals/are-...
Are alpha males real?
The term "alpha male" was coined in 1970 to describe wolves. But what does science think about the term now?
livescience.com
Fantastic relationship science in the nytimes - nice work, Maya and Erica!
What kinds of conversations spark instant connection? Excited to share my first NYT Guest Essay, with @ericaboothby.bsky.social. We argue that playful riffing — creating a little world together — forges and deepens relationships through shared reality. www.nytimes.com/2025/09/04/o...
Now through 9/5: Preorder from Barnes & Noble and get a special discount on my book! B&N Rewards and Premium Members get 25% off preorders. Premium Members get an additional 10% off physical books. Use coupon code PREORDER25. www.barnesandnoble.com/w/bonded-by-... @BarnesandNoble #BNPreorder
📢 MAJOR ANNOUNCEMENT 📢 @nourkteily.bsky.social and I are delighted to introduce the Litowitz Center for Enlightened Disagreement, supercharged by a $20M gift from Jennifer and Alec Litowitz. The #LitowitzCenter helps people harness the power of difference. www.chicagotribune.com/2025/09/03/n...
Northwestern trustee and husband gift $20 million to Center for Enlightened Disagreement
A Northwestern University trustee and her husband have donated $20 million to support the school’s Center for Enlightened Disagreement.
chicagotribune.com
Had a blast chatting with Alex Curmi on the Thinking Mind Podcast! open.spotify.com/episode/1Vy0...
The Thinking Mind Podcast: Psychiatry & Psychotherapy
Mental Health Podcast · Updated Biweekly ·
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A big THANK YOU to @davidmcraney.bsky.social for featuring the #LoveFactually podcast on #YouAreNotSoSmart! The episode delves into #TheNotebook, figuring out what the movie gets right -- and what it gets wrong -- about how relationships work. Enjoy! youarenotsosmart.com/2025/08/04/y...
YANSS 319 – What movies often get wrong about romantic love, relationships, and human mating in general
Two psychologists who study love, relationships, and human mating behavior pick apart the movie “The Notebook” and tell us what it gets right and what it gets wrong when it comes to por…
youarenotsosmart.com
As Floods Hit, Key Roles Were Vacant at Weather Service Offices in Texas www.nytimes.com/2025/07/05/u...
As Floods Hit, Key Roles Were Vacant at Weather Service Offices in Texas
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Great chatting with @dkthomp.bsky.social about relationship science and what it can tell us about online dating, soul mates, and Julia Roberts movies! More on the science behind your favorite rom coms on the Love Factually Podcast with me and Eli at: podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/l...
The Rules of Attraction and the Psychology of Romance
Plain English with Derek Thompson · Episode
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When I was in grad school, this was THE resource...and it cost a ton. Now it's free. Amazing. #PsychSciSky
Since 1954, "The Handbook of Social Psychology" has been the field’s most authoritative reference work, and today is the launch of the 6th edition with 50 new chapters by 100 leading scholars. Best news? The HSP is now an open-access public resource—free to read, download, and share. the-hsp.com
A terrific HuffPost writeup of our recent PNAS paper! #PsychSciSky
Expectation: Women prefer to date men who are slightly older than them. Men prefer slightly younger women. Reality: When people actually go on dates, both men *and* women prefer to date younger, new research shows. 👀 I talked to the study's author here: www.huffpost.com/entry/women-...
“reactionary backlash is a feature of two main milestones in the academy’s history: the democratization of admissions and the diversification of curriculum. Trump and Vance’s attacks are part of a longer history of rightwing backlash that follows each time college becomes more democratic”
‘The universities are the enemy’: why the right detests the American campus | Lauren Lassabe Shepherd
For centuries, the academy was exclusive to the Christian elite. When that began to change, an onslaught began
theguardian.com
On Friday, my son stayed home from school because he had a sore throat and wasn’t feeling well. He went with my husband to his office for the morning while I handled our daughter. When he came back at lunch, he was not interested in eating, saying his throat hurt too much. 1/n
ICYMI: Georgetown Law students made a 853-row spreadsheet of Trump-caving firms. It drew national headlines. Recruiters noticed some talent looked elsewhere. Firms lobbied to change their designation. An organizer tells @www.AllRiseNews.com the background www.allrisenews.com/p/skadden-st...
In the most recent Bridget Jones film, we find our heroine drawn to younger men. According to our recent PNAS article, this aspect of the movie is spot on: On average, women say they want an older partner, but they are initially attracted to younger ones. #PsychSciSky
Bridget Jones is an Avatar for the Science of Attraction | SPSP
Both men and women are—perhaps surprisingly—more attracted to younger partners.
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these fuckers being able to destroy everything is not a foregone conclusion