would like to point out that this is a root of Puritanism just as much as being controlling about porn. Dragging someone and nailing them to a mistake for a bunch of people to see. Trying to make an example out of them. The pressure to never fail. To be held “accountable.” all smells the same.
Yeah we gotta collectively chill with the whole “if you make a mistake or act out in any way we are going to threaten your social networks, life, or physical body” thing bc it’s just pouring acid on the soil. “they should be excommunicated!” Like c’mon. Lovingly, read the room.