Mel

@sizebat.bsky.social

-INACTIVE ARCHIVAL ACCOUNT- Mel | they/he | Furry macro/micro artist. I drew big paws & hungry maws. NSFW! I don't use this account anymore, but I hope you enjoy the art I've made here!

Hey y'all, I hope you're having a nice holiday. I'm closing out this account, and I've refunded all commissions I owe in full. These commissions - and some of the friends I've made here - were a lifeline for me during some really difficult years. But, I want to move forward.

Y'know, sometimes when you play duos, you aim to win or you aim to try new items/have fun. And other times you aim to camp inside your 'mates kicks all match and have your snoot between their toes... Maybe being a Rat ain't so bad ☺️ Wendell is SO CUTE HERE AAHHH AMAZING Art❤️ by @sizebat.bsky.social

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A reminder, ruminating on what happened in the past has shown to deepen anxiety . We need to acknowledge what happened, we don't have to be ok with it, but dwelling on it will not help. Instead fill that time to do things for you, here are some tools from Chatter by Ethan Kross (recommend readin)

This is the single most important advice any creative person needs to hear. There are of course factors such as financial insecurity or mental and physical impediments (spoons ≠ motivation even though people will tell you they are the same) but when you can, do, whether you feel inspired or not.

A big misconception is that you need to be motivated to get rolling.
You don't.
Research: Motivation often FOLLOWS action, not the other way around.
In Practice: You don't need to feel good to get going; you need to get going to give yourself a chance at feeling good.

Don't hate on men with smaller dicks or men with t-dicks. They can wear all kinds of strap-ons and wearables. You can literally hot-swap your man's dick. Customizable pp.