bridget

@thisnerd.bsky.social

Happily married, feminist, tech nerd, AuDHD, oft just vibin tryna make friends 🏳️‍⚧️ Anti-genocide, anti-GC, anti-racist, anti-fascist (though I think these all go without saying)

It's not "too woke" to say that straight men who rape women should be reviled for being rapists, not tarred as secretly queer. To imply they're gay, or that they wear dresses, to distance them from manhood, is to insist that their violence is "deviant" rather than utterly banal and normative.

it's so funny that these dudes all continue to repeat the same thing when we've said multiple times the issue is not the unintentional misgendering but the way they publicly piss their pants when corrected and act like being corrected is an unforgivable insult and act of aggression

JuicyJuuce@juicyjuuce.bsky.social · last mo.

there is zero evidence of intentional misgendering! that's a lie you guys keep repeating and it's why you're convinced that an apology is warranted. stop fooling each other and you might start to see through this.

Patriarchy is about maintaining the exploitability of sexual underclasses for those empowered to extract reproductive-sexual labour from them. In that sense, appealing to the idea that transphobia would eventually affect (marginal) cis women too was always futile. Feature. Not bug.

👁️🍄🪸@bloomfilters.plus · last mo.

they're not moving to care much because in general the politics of cisness are "some baseline level of sexual violation is necessary to ensure that the neat categories of sex and heterosexuality are maintained"

Doing my best not to down my whipped cream vodka while trying to pack for the move. I'm excited, but scared for some reason. Need a reason to calm tf down fr

I feel like I need a tree of characters to see which pilot belongs to whom and their relation to other pilots, when I read Gunmetal Olympus. Anyone have one just lying around somewhere?