Pirate Demon (in a Trenchcoat)

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Aka 3 Taikas in a Trenchcoat Cait: 30s she/her. Living abroad with EDS and a little attitude. Mostly pirate love and #HazbinHotel here & occasionally other ridiculousness. In the #RhysDarbyFaction. #LongLiveOFMD 🏳️‍🌈💙💜💗

Going to my first ever queer happy hour next weekend! A little nervous but excited. I know everyone will be lovely and accepting so mostly the latter. First time introducing myself as Ace in a public space too. June seems like the time to do it anyway! 😜

How do you balance out feedback from people & recognizing what actually needs to change? These assholes decided to rip into me, but at what point do I step from self reflection into self-flagellation due to a few opinions? I want to reflect and do better; but how do I know what that really is?

Roommate threw my (clean) wet clothes from the washer onto the floor and couldn’t understand why I was pissed. He said “where else should I have put them?” my dude. literally anywhere else. Like, do you even have a single brain cell? I live with an orange cat without the adorableness 🤦‍♀️

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Now that I’ve realized my #ace identity it’s interesting talking to friends about who they are attracted to. I’m like “what do you mean they need to be blonde” or whatever because I’ve never fussed with physical specifics. It’s just been really funny and a bit of an “ohhhhhh” moment 😂