The autistic community talks a lot about boundaries. We talk much less about grief. Every boundary contains grief. The friendship you couldn’t keep. The family who preferred the masked version of you. The career that only loved your productivity. We lose entire futures.
Arid
@aridthecat.bsky.social
24 | Philly | Gay he/him | 🤎 @gramdragondog.bsky.social 🤎 | Suit by @pinustudios.bsky.social | Musician | F1 fan | Transit enjoyer | Autism advocate | 18+ only | AD is @ad-thecat.bsky.social
Why do neurotypicals have tons of unwritten rules for people but they won't even tell you when you violate them?
We’re facing a tough situation after losing my job and accumulating debt from roommates. Our goal is to move back to Milwaukee to rebuild our lives with family support. Every donation helps cover travel and essentials. Please share or contribute if you can. Thank you! [heart] gofund.me/37f55d0ca
Donate to Help Ripner and Husband Move Home to Milwaukee, organized by Michael Engelbart
My name is Michael, but many in my fandom community know me as Ripner… Michael Engelbart needs your support for Help Ripner and Husband Move Home to Milwaukee
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In many cases mental health isn't a matter of being better or finding a cure. It's finding ways to survive the storms so you can live to see the sunny days.
Ever wonder how furry conventions decide when to ban someone? I wrote a blog post that explains how the process works. www.dmuth.org/so-you-think...
So, You Think Someone Should Be Banned From A Furry Con
A practical guide to reporting safety concerns at conventions: what evidence helps, what doesn't, and why convention ban decisions are more complicated than many people realize.
dmuth.org
If you got a random notification from TailTag yesterday, here's what happened.
Hey yall I know I don’t use this app (I’m way more active on Instagram) I may as well say I am open for comms! DM me for more info and examples I’m honestly open for most of anything! If you can share this that would be epic but no worries if not. #fursuitcommissions #fursuitmaker #fursuitcomms
Some of the Pinu family at AC this past weekend! Aren't they adorable??
The start of the 1957 British Grand Prix at Aintree with Stirling Moss (Vanwall VW5), Jean Behra (Maserati 250F) and Tony Brooks (Vanwall VW5) on the first row. #f1 #formula1 #historicf1
@aridthecat.bsky.social and I saw the Union Pacific Big Boy yesterday up at Steamtown in Scranton. #furry #fursuiting #trains #bigboy4014 #steamtrain #locomotive #railfanning #railfur
Jochen Rindt (Lotus 49B) leading the pack at the start of the 1969 United States Grand Prix at Watkins Glen. #f1 #formula1 #historicf1
His ass does NOT know he's about to be returned for store credit #furry #fursuit #fursuitfriday 📸: @hypercat.me
The number of ableist and "why can't everyone be like me" posts I see from furries is real disappointing
Happy pride month! Was with @pinefurmeets.bsky.social in the Haddon Township Pride Parade back on Thursday with the bf and friends. #furry #furryfandom #fursuiting
One of my favorite parts of Pittsburgh Pride is that the park it’s in (Allegheny Commons Park West) has train tracks running straight through it! It’s nicknamed “The Trench” 🚂 :3 #TrainTuesday #Trains #Fursuit #Pride ✂️ @blueharborc.bsky.social 🎥 sabertoofthey
Airo train pulling into King Street Station (2x speed) @amtrakcascades.wsdot.wa.gov
01101000 01100101 01101100 01101100 01101111 00101100 00100000 01110111 01101111 01110010 01101100 01100100 #FursuitFriday from #FWA2026 📷: @whiskeyrodent.bsky.social's Game Boy Camera 🧵: @pinustudios.bsky.social