mbbendt

@bendts2cents.bsky.social

American Studies PhDStudent: squeamishly fascinated by religion, capitalism, energy/environment, critical regionalism. Mom of 2 young adults, 2 cats, about 102 plants. God-stalker. Grace-freak. Rebel. Union member. Cats, coffee, chocolate, cheese, chile

Last week me needed a book my library only had in special collections for library use only, no checkout, but cost $4 + $4 shipping to order and read in the comfort of my favorite chair at home.

HIV treatment Windmills Birth control options Heat pumps Childhood lead exposure The line at the bank on payday Trains (just not in USA) Ozone hole Cat litter Infant & kid carseats Modems Dental care Long distance phonecalls Travel coffee cups & water bottles

Constantine@ajaxsinger.bsky.social · 19h ago

Food, man. Food is so much better than it was in 1986. All of it. Poor-people food, restaurant food, fresh food, frozen food. Food is just a hell of a lot better.

dorian

@doriantaylor.com

air travel is one of those experiences that has gotten monotonically worse over my entire lifetime

question though: has *anything* in the last 40+ years genuinely gotten *better*?

like, there's *more* stuff, sure, but is any of it *better*?

2:58 PM Aug 4, 2026

I spend an incredible amount of classroom and office hours time helping students with basic file management. All of us who grew up with floppy disks know digital data has to be physically stored somewhere. People who grew up "on the cloud" need to be taught this!

Jess Calarco@jessicacalarco.com · 3d ago

Relatedly: If you're a college professor, and you assume that all of your students can type quickly, efficiently, and accurately on a keyboard, you're almost certainly wrong.

The things I have done to try to keep things cool with men who chose to abuse me is extensive. And includes cooking, invitations to the park (prevents claims you've refused him the kid while allowing you to supervise the kid!), and entirely too much smiling.

The Bulwark@thebulwark.com · 3d ago

Rep. Max Miller: "My former wife has claimed that during a custody exchange at my home that day, I assaulted her…If I had assaulted her, would she have offered to cook me dinner six days later?"

When I was small, my father held a knife to my mom’s throat as I screamed and scratched at his legs. Later she made dinner, because refusing to do so would have been worse. That was a few days before we left in the night, her bleeding, me silent. It was the worst night of my life. And the best.

The Bulwark@thebulwark.com · 3d ago

Rep. Max Miller: "My former wife has claimed that during a custody exchange at my home that day, I assaulted her…If I had assaulted her, would she have offered to cook me dinner six days later?"

It really really really bugs me how many people simply do not understand what it means when the government tries to convict you even IF THEY FAIL TO DO IT. Do you know how many thousands of dollars in legal fees it costs? You will most likely lose your job. You might lose your home.

I was back in school TWO DAYS after giving birth because I could not afford to loose financial aid. I missed ONE DAY and was punished for it in class. I had nearly perfect scores on every assignment and exam and otherwise perfect attendance but was still handed the Mom Penalty.

Sarah Tuttle@niais.bsky.social · 5d ago

All of this and more. I wouldn't trade my children for the world. But this country has meant that I've traded a lot to be their mom. www.seattletimes.com/opinion/wond...

This is a tip I got from a CTL class early in grad school. And there is often that one group on the last project who thank me for finally getting to work with a group that didn't leave them to do the whole project alone and *just once* getting to experience an equitable work load.

Captain Awkward@captainawkward.bsky.social · 5d ago

Filmmaking is all group project, all the time, literally forever! Swift accountability about showing up for each other had a ripple effect for everyone’s benefit. [Evil Professor Laugh] If the first group project revealed multiple slackers, I put them all in the same group for Project 2.