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Dr. McThemtheytheirson. Following the fandom tides. Icon by @amagire.bsky.social, 18+ often nsfw

I’ve literally lived on toast the whole week and my gf came over and some feeding instinct kicks in like here I picked berries, let me invent a sauce :) I’ll make a pizza from scratch :) with vegetables from my garden :) which herbs do you want :) I can make a dessert pizza :) jfc

well. this feels bad but i can no longer ignore the emails about my overdue student loan payments, nor can i currently afford to pay any of my bills. if you enjoy my nonsense and are in a place to donate i appreciate it beyond words but pls take care of yourselves first. ok thank you love you bye

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i hate how much people care about their ships being "canon" now. spirk fans didn't publish zines full of fanfics in the 70s only for modern fandom to grovel at the knees of corporations and beg for things to be canon. use your imaginations, don't allow billionaires to think for you.

If anyone was wondering* why I post action items when I share a high-stakes horrible situation, this is why. Even if you can't do that thing to improve the situation, it's still good to know such things can be done, people are already doing them, & maybe you can too one day *probably no one was

Kate Schapira: "Well Put & Generalizable"@kateschapira.bsky.social · 6mo ago

Reminding myself, & you, that if we see something horrible we want to repost to make it known, quoting the post & linking a way for people to usefully counter the horrible thing is both good practice & good mental hygiene, even if we have to pause a minute & search for the useful action

Higher ed just dissolved the largest community of writing teachers in the world. The annual conference had ~3500 attendees. The org had been in place since the 1940s, and they dissolved it without notifying the members, during summer, literally at 5pm on a Friday. I am SHOOKETH

I’ve been dealing with a family medical crisis literally 16-20 hours a day for the last six days A. It sucks B. Put your passwords somewhere and tell at least one person and how to get to them C. I’ve never been so excited to sleep in my own bed, I’m going to sleep for the next 12 hours

i'm firmly of the belief that everyone should have a creative hobby. even if you aren't "good" at it. it keeps your critical thinking skills engaged, it reminds you that you're still capable of learning and growing and improving at things, it helps you connect to other people. you gotta make stuff!

It’s 10am and I’ve had a contractor here, made jam, messaged the contractor’s supervisor because the original guy fixed my drywall but broke my sink, weed whacked the yard, and reached out to my fuckin professional network because shit is going to get dark if I don’t get a job soon 😭

Lrp: I made this and it is a little too oniony because I don’t have parsley and threw in some fresh basil instead. But it’s still quite good with sourdough and tomorrow I will have it with fresh peas from the garden, which should put the flavor profile back where I want it TIL!