Des

@deskitty.bsky.social

🔞 I (re)post NSFW things! they/them (he/him if you must). stray cat. sub of some kind. Professional computer gremlin, recreational abuser of type systems, expert at falling over. Enjoyer of earnestness and deep conversation. NorCal. Early 40s. 😸 / ΘΔ / 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

Man, it is… really weird suddenly feeling like I am the adventurous one amongst my friends when it comes to sex and kink. >.>;; This is a weird position for me (heh). Normally I’m the one who’s more paranoid about safety (still am, to a healthier degree), worried about appearances (still ish), etc.

Nothing like being asked by your 3yo niece “are you a boy or a girl?” a glass and a half of wine in and wondering what the right answer is [it’s something like “none of the above”] >.>;;

A stupid, useless fact I have just learned (because I calculated it): If you drive on a US freeway at 75MPH, your music should be 165bpm to make the dashed lane markers on the roadway line up perfectly with the beat.

Tfw you go in for your STI tests and your lab tech calls out for “Des” instead of <legal name>… oh no the streams have crossed ^o.o^;;

Funny considering I grew up in the Bay Area and lived near Boston for a year. I caught some of the Boston-isms in the questions but chose none of them, heh.

Map of my dialect showing I am extremely west coast coded. My most similar city is San Francisco (duh) and Boston is my least similar.

if anyone is interested in sharing your thoughts on how furry intersects with your self-identity, my friends and i would love to hear from you!! any format or length is welcome, including stuff like art or interactive media if you're so inclined (i'd esp love to hear from therians!)

Ån (Fox)@foxriot.com · last wk.

If you are interested in participating in the project, you can! Next up is "Identity and the Self" hosted by @energyscarf.net energyscarf.net/blog/midway-...

…oh. That’s why the bio-cat was kinda glued to me this evening. He must have noticed the spiral before I put 2+2 together. *sighs, takes their meds, tries to read or something until their nervous system settles*

I wrote an essay about why I'm done using AI for coding, even if it costs me my job and career: brettcodes.com/im-done-usin... The basic gist is: AI made me a worse, apathetic programmer. I think it's bad for humanity, the planet, and the craft of software engineering. And I'm done using it.

I'm done using AI

Why I'm stopping using AI for coding (and anything else) after using it earnestly for a year and coming to understand the harms it causes on personal, societal, and environmental levels.

brettcodes.com

I like that NixOS is purist about how it builds and configures itself, but I hate that it’s *so* purist not even /bin/bash exists. Like, come the fuck on, way to break everyone’s shell scripts. …on the other hand, the fact that it cannot run unpatched Claude is nice. >.>;;

Is it floor time? I think it’s floor time. I’ve been a good human for the last hour and change and now it’s time to be a cat once again.

Where are people posting their own long-form writing nowadays? I kinda feel the need to have a blog again, but I dunno if anyone would actually read it. >.>; (And if y'all write your own, please tell me so I can read it!)

Man, I wanna just like… go grocery shopping together. Cook a meal, chill out, leave the house, go somewhere new. Clean up the kitchen together, take out the trash, share space on the couch while we each do our own thing. I miss that.

🚨BREAKING: Our union of over 12,000 baristas are officially calling for a Starbucks boycott. Read this statement penned by Starbucks workers on why a boycott from ALL customers, allies, and organizations is necessary to fight back against corporate greed:

BOYCOTT STARBUCKS is written inside a zig-zaggy speech bubble against crumbled paper. Beside it are the Starbucks Workers United logo and an image of a coffee cup being poured out.We, the 12,000 and growing members of Starbucks Workers United, call on everyone who stands with working people to boycott Starbucks until they finalize a contract with union baristas and stop union-busting.
What we’re fighting for is simple: a minimum $17/hr wage, enough hours to live on, better staffing in our stores, and basic workplace protections. Every year, our living costs rise but our wages don’t keep up – a growing pressure many American workers are feeling as corporate greed accelerates unchecked in our country. 
Starbucks is banking on customers' blind loyalty to the integrity and values this company once stood for in order to keep squeezing them for profits. At a time when working-class people across the country are struggling in a challenging economy, it is no longer possible to be both a Starbucks customer and in support of workers; choosing to spend money at Starbucks is choosing a law breaking corporation over the baristas who make your coffee everyday exactly as you ask for it.
Starbucks has violated U.S. labor law more than any other company in modern history–the NLRB and its judges have found that Starbucks committed hundreds of labor violations and there are currently more than 550 unresolved unfair labor practice charges still pending against the company. Instead of finalizing a fair and reasonable union contract, Starbucks has repeatedly demonstrated a lack of care for the workers who fuel the company’s profits by wasting millions of dollars on AI and technology that doesn’t work, launching countless gimmicky drinks designed to distract from real problems, and inventing pointless policies that do nothing but make our jobs harder. 
This ongoing, irrational behavior by Starbucks and its refusal to settle a fair union contract with workers leaves us with no other choice than to call for a boycott. We know when working people stand up together, we win. 
No Contract? No Coffee.

Here are my states. California is home. Always has been, always will be. Massachusetts... could have been home. I really, really wish it had been, but it's not. I miss the life I was trying to build there. I miss my friends. I miss Mike's Pastries, Tatte, the unhinged road system, the summer rain.

A map of the US showing that I've lived in California and Massachusetts, stayed a while in Washington and Nevada, visited New York, New Hampshire, Florida, Illinois, Colorado, Wyoming, Arizona, Utah, Idaho and Oregon, and passed through Conneticut, Rhode Island, Pennsylvania, Ohio, Indiana, Iowa, Nebraska, New Mexico and Montana.

Hey, hey you. Yes you. It's okay. It's always been okay. You're not broken for being you. You're not a problem, or a burden. I know it's easy to let those inner voices say otherwise. But take it from a stranger.. You aren't the darkness you see when you close your eyes.