Micaela “grossly unremarkable balls” Deitz

@dykedeitz.bsky.social

“A girl from New Jersey, where they were not what you might call beautiful but were magnificent.” - John Saward on James Gandolfini but if it was about me :) Trans Critic & Editor & Essayist & Author & Poet ✍️ @ Stop Caring, Deleted Saves, Polygon, etc

People get demoralized when transitioning when they discover that beyond the initial identification of "the problem," transitioning itself will not make you happy. What it provides is the POSSIBILITY for happiness by allowing you to more easily participate in romance, community and self-improvement

Hey New Yorkers. Like many I have been freaking out about the new Medicaid work requirements, expecting to lose coverage. However, I have discovered the situation is not as dire as it seemed. **You only need to have work/volunteering on the record the month before renewal, not every month.**

i've been struggling recently, so i did what anyone would do and wrote something incredibly difficult and personal strong TW for mentions of violence, suicide, sex, assault both sexual and physical, and BDSM thank you for reading if you do. this took a lot 💜

on blood and bruises

[TW: violence, sex, assault both sexual and physical, BDSM themes] hit me. just fucking hit me. give me your rage, your bitterness, your suffering. let it o...

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a really cool thing about vaginoplasty is it gives you a pussy that looks like a pussy and smells like a pussy and makes pussy noises and does pussy stuff and is a pussy (it gives you a pussy)

had a well meaning cis friend “defend” Talarico by clarifying that sex and gender are separate and i gave a long detailed response why they aren’t and why that’s a conservative dog whistle and he never responded so!

👁️🍄🪸@bloomfilters.plus · 2w ago

trans ppl basically lost the battle (not the war though) the minute everyone started thinking "sex is totally separate from gender and sex is more Real and Unchangeable" like full stop