there’s nothing more transexual than revitalizing a dead language for dirty talk
Micaela “grossly unremarkable balls” Deitz
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“A girl from New Jersey, where they were not what you might call beautiful but were magnificent.” - John Saward on James Gandolfini but if it was about me :) Trans Critic & Editor & Essayist & Author & Poet ✍️ @ Stop Caring, Deleted Saves, Polygon, etc
edited @dykedeitz.bsky.social's incredible wolverine review (so excited to see it up soon, it's so good) and then i open youtube and see this. i'm eating good tonight
Wolverine - The Game That Thinks You're Stupid
YouTube video by The Cosmonaut Variety Hour
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incredibly proud, humbled, and grateful to have brought home the journalism impact award last week! updating my linkedin as we speak
We're thrilled to see This Week in Videogames journalist @maddie-b-a.bsky.social nominated for MCV/DEVELOP's 2026 Women in Games Awards in the 'Journalism Impact' category. Congratulations to all the finalists! 👏 womeningamesawards.com/2026-finalis...
as a people we have to learn the wisdom of "i don't know anything about that, i can't possibly have an opinion"
Primetime is a really intense, sweaty, grotesque movie, and i really wish it gave me a content warning for Jared Padelecki saying he is one of the small minority who prefers the rent movie to the stage production
when are the tgirls gonna start co-opting yiddish? i don’t wanna hear about clits and cunts, i wanna hear about schvantzs and knishes, schlongs and schmundies
"bringing my puppygirl girlfriend to an electronica set, call her subwoofer" - @dykedeitz.bsky.social
Signal is really awesome and secure and also when it breaks it, which is frequently, it absolutely obliterates itself and takes all your data and messages along with it if you’re stupid enough to not manually back it up often (me) or save the restore key (me).
People get demoralized when transitioning when they discover that beyond the initial identification of "the problem," transitioning itself will not make you happy. What it provides is the POSSIBILITY for happiness by allowing you to more easily participate in romance, community and self-improvement
annual reminder that Bobby Kotick threatened to sue me and my college paper for an essay I wrote about him donating $4 mil to the university, which he only knew about because his daughter went there too and had her feelings hurt
In recent years, the media has quietly begun to change the way in which it writes about Bobby Kotick, the former CEO of Activision Blizzard. PMG investigates how Kotick used the threat of defamation to reshape his legacy in the games business, one article at a time. www.youtube.com/watch?v=kKwp...
you think anyone ever got kicked out of an invading force because they kept saying “we’re gonna pillage the village” like an autistic stim? law of big numbers means it has to have happened at least once
theres a chilly breeze in the air and boxes of Mallomars are falling from the trees — it truly is fall in new york city
wow, okay. when it was simply trials, i was okay with it. i could cope. but now that you’re adding tribulations onto there? that’s not cool. worst BOGO ever
Hey New Yorkers. Like many I have been freaking out about the new Medicaid work requirements, expecting to lose coverage. However, I have discovered the situation is not as dire as it seemed. **You only need to have work/volunteering on the record the month before renewal, not every month.**
It's Monday morning, and I am reluctantly entering into the discussion about what The Democrats should do about The Trans, most of which translates to "believe in something, for once in your life, for fuck's sake." No paywall on this guy: jude-doyle.ghost.io/transformer-...
Transformer: Velvet Goldmine (Todd Haynes, 1998)
A few thoughts on the queer post-apocalypse.
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at the risk of sounding crude: what the actual fucking living fuck are you C-suite morons goddamn fucking doing? Asha Sharma and every executive have blood on their hands for obliterating the industry and gaming history with feckless abandon to appease number go up.
NEW: Nearly 300 more jobs cut at Microsoft's gaming team (part of 3,200 announced in July). Majority at Halo Studios, reduced to support Ninja Theory facing potential closure Halo to Activision (dev and publishing) Rare to Activision, too Obsidian to Bethesda www.gamefile.news/p/xbox-halo-...
one year instead of being with my disinterested family, i will walk into a trans-inclusive break fast and be swaddled in the loving arms of Rachel’s and Rebecca’s and Miriam’s and the many non-binary jews named Challah and Gefilte or somethin’
out of curiosity, did anyone from Japan or South East Asia review Wolverine? because I’d be very curious on their takes
feminist cinema is when films have no climax, lesbian cinema is when they have many
reviewing Wolverine is going great, why do you ask? this soft-locked my game, btw.
got my face zapped, conveniently forgetting that laser hair removal hurts and is evil. i will forget again and go back in seven weeks.
has anyone told Sam Barlow to watch Chronovisor yet? i’ll buy him a ticket if he can get to Lincoln Center
so glad we budget the NYPD tens of hundreds of millions of dollars so they can overpay officers to Myrtle-Wyckoff to scroll on their phones for hours. would be a dream job if not for the moral and existential emptiness of their choices
i've been struggling recently, so i did what anyone would do and wrote something incredibly difficult and personal strong TW for mentions of violence, suicide, sex, assault both sexual and physical, and BDSM thank you for reading if you do. this took a lot 💜
on blood and bruises
[TW: violence, sex, assault both sexual and physical, BDSM themes] hit me. just fucking hit me. give me your rage, your bitterness, your suffering. let it o...
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they should make a breakup essay that doesn’t tear your heart into little pieces and force you to sew it back together into something newer and sturdier. it should be about tardigrades instead. y’know? water bears. those little guys are so cute, can’t have a Frankenstein heart thinking about them
a really cool thing about vaginoplasty is it gives you a pussy that looks like a pussy and smells like a pussy and makes pussy noises and does pussy stuff and is a pussy (it gives you a pussy)
had a well meaning cis friend “defend” Talarico by clarifying that sex and gender are separate and i gave a long detailed response why they aren’t and why that’s a conservative dog whistle and he never responded so!
trans ppl basically lost the battle (not the war though) the minute everyone started thinking "sex is totally separate from gender and sex is more Real and Unchangeable" like full stop