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24 | he/they | 🇬🇧🇺🇲 | don't involve me in shipcourse | amateur gposer and art student | adult content ahoy! 🔞 Muse is transmasc and goes by he/they, Reika is non-binary and goes by they/them no qos/AI/lala nsfw

I think a lots of white queers really don’t like having this convo but your view on gender expression def needs to be decolonized and stripped of the need for things to be Eurocentric in beauty because that shit is still oppressive. Remember that you’re still benefitting from those things.

Authors should not have to be on trial for or disclose whether they have survived sexual abuse themselves in order to write a character who's survived it, and the demand for that disclosure is heavily predatory and abusive.

What the "no uncomfortable media ever" folks don't seem to want to acknowledge is that for some of us, stories depicting violence and suffering are about feeling seen as fellow survivors, and (in most stories) also seeing that these things can be overcome, even if they can't be eradicated.

I've been using PayPal invoices for years, mentioning the word "commission" and have had no problems. The issue arises when you do business by making people pay via Friends & Family. Please stop spreading misinformation.

The number of Black men and women being found hanging from trees is outrageous and terrifying. The silence is beyond comprehension. Black people are not suddenly choosing to lynch themselves. What in the actual fuck is happening in this country, and why isn’t anything being said or done about it.

Remember how I briefly mentioned that trans discourse is incredibly global-north-centric? The guy under discussion (that-grassbro) was talking about transmasc vulnerability in a country where rights for afab people are legally curtailed, and how that led to him being trafficked.

Elizabeth Smith@instantsunrise.bsky.social · 6d ago

If you want know how things are going on tumblr, the transandrophobia guys are spreading a conspiracy theory that trans women in the global south are secretly running a global sex trafficking ring to traffic trans boys. The source is “trust me bro and fuck you for asking for sources.”

trans men don't owe us a "masculine" appearance/clothes/etc! trans women don't owe us a "feminine" appearance/clothes/etc! nonbinary people don't owe us an "androgynous" appearance/clothing/etc! present how ever you want!! i love you!!!

"Men Bad" alienates cis men who are on board with the end goal & prevents them from coordinating with feminists, convinces them that it's not for them, and actively harms marginalized men from every intersection you can imagine by pushing them out of a movement that needs their experiences & voices.

"Man Bad" doesn't solve shit! And embracing a form a feminism that hinges on the idea that all men are irredeemable monsters who are actively working to uphold the status quo to keep women in the kitchen, barefoot and pregnant, is anathema to actual progress.

Unfortunately, the transphobia and transmisogyny are literally just the icing and cherry on top of the most dogshit cake that all of us have ever been asked to choke down. The epicentre of radfeminism is "man bad" and this is why radfeminism has ALWAYS been on the outskirts of the general movement.