average intracommunity beefs

@sometransbeef.bsky.social

if you want off a list because you have been incorrectly labeled, gimme a heads up. Marginalized men, mascs, and nb people deserve feminisms that respect their vulnerability under patriarchy

Every so often I feel like bringing up, in the first chapter of Female Masculinity, Halberstam talks about butches being harassed in women's restrooms way back in the 90s and notes, correctly, if people REALLY believed these butches were men, they would not be harassing them like this.

The Monster Can't Shut Up Actually@graay.bsky.social · yesterday

How much anti trans and anti lesbian stuff rhyme is fucking egregious. I remember being told that lesbians were Like That because they had too much testosterone.

Quick question: do you think gay men experience marginalization? If so, would you say that oppression has to do with their manhood? That perhaps they experience the 'intersection' of their gender and their sexual desires in the social context which expects gender to relate to sexual desire?

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You're minimizing your own suffering by refusing to acknowledge oppression faced by trans people who experience a specific, unique combination of misogyny, androsexism and transmisia that is deeply historically embedded in our systems of oppression and marginalization. I recommend bell hooks.

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Gavin Grimm was the most visible person fighting bathroom bills, but apparently the 99% of anti-trans laws that cover and harm trans boys and force them into women's bathrooms. Surely Nex Benedict getting killed by teenage girls for being nb isn't a form of transphobia and misogyny.

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Feminists want to change the social world, so they cannot have too much respect for past descriptions of social institutions. (3/3) — Richard Rorty, Feminism, Ideology, and Deconstruction: A Pragmatist View, p. 343

Hat tip to @josephtheloser.bsky.social for pointing out that the post OP is mad about was responding to someone else arguing that hyper-feminine binary trans women are inherently more transgressive than visibly transgressing gender norms. I direct y'all back to my previous Halberstam quote though.

Drowned screencap of a tumblr post reading:

a trans woman shaved nose to toes in a full face of makeup high heels and a dress will always be more transgressive than the genderfuckiest tme boydyke girlfag you can find
Thorne 🌸@ens0.me · 2w ago

I'm not trying to be "revolutionary" or "subversive" by being trans. I had gender dysphoria, and this is what fixed it. I wanted to be a girl as long as I remember. I'm way happier now that I can be. I'm not trying to make a political statement about gender by existing.

That "cringe" nonbinary xenogender
genderfuck therian who uses
neopronouns and may or may not go
on HRT while being loudly, proudly
themselves will always be more
revolutionary and subversive than a
binary trans person who aggressively
reproduces the cis status quo and
shames anyone who doesn't do the
same.

...position of discursive and institutional power. Epistemologically and politically, the psychoanalyst is a binary heterosexual body… until proven otherwise. (2/2) — Paul B. Preciado, Can the Monster Speak?, p. 35

I do not believe that heterosexuality is a sexual practice or a sexual identity but, like Monique Wittig, a political regime that reduces the sum total of the living human body and its psychic energy to its reproductive potential, a... (1/2) — Paul B. Preciado, Can the Monster Speak?, p. 35