Katie Kaput

@katiekaput.bsky.social

Trans woman. Mother of grown people (one living, one dead: both wonderful). Chicagoan forever, long term Portlander. Writer-ish. 44 years old I think? Sounds right.

I feel like some people just really believe in their guts that the reason we are facing anti-trans backlash is because we used the wrong words in the 2010s and not, you know, the concerted efforts of people who hate us, plus the well-documented history of backlash as a political phenomenon.

Interesting to watch the Blazers adopt the “This City is a Shithole” strategy of the business community as the Timbers, Thorns, Fire and Pickles/Cheery Bombs/Bangers manage to do what an NBA franchise says it can’t.

After enjoying fifty years of devoted fandom and support I find it downright shameful for a pro sports team to send their lobbyist to city hall and just flatly say into the mic that the city sucks, in an effort to shake ‘em down for hundreds of millions of taxpayer dollars with zero accountability

The idea that the league, teams, coaches, and players should remain silent in the face of this absolute discriminatory bullshit encouraged by bigoted statements from a player is bananas to me. Everyone should be shouting this down. You want an welcoming and inclusive fanbase? PROVE IT.

Pitch Mr. Perfect@michaelwaterloo.bsky.social · 2w ago

The Indiana Fever play tomorrow in Portland and Sunday in Minnesota. There are "Support Sophie Cunningham" transphobic rallies planned for both cities. Fuck all the way off. #WNBA

I have to admit that I have a reddit account (mostly for r/portland and r/portlandfire) in order to tell you that the Portland Fire subreddit is doing a better job handling this S*ph*e C*nn*n*ham situation than any of the other wnba related subreddits. 1/2

This is just a guide to the places I’ve lived/have treasured memories (especially with my kids) and the places the people I love live. That said there are wonderful things about all of these places. Portland, OR Chicago, IL Philadelphia, PA Los Angeles, CA Lucca, IT

Brent Toderian@brenttoderian.bsky.social · 4w ago

QUESTION: What are your FIVE favourite cities anywhere in the world? Bonus points for persuasive explanations why your choices are “right.” Mine (in no order) are: Paris Barcelona New York Montreal Vancouver

On Friday it’ll be what would have been the 20th birthday of my child, Jet. There is only one book that she loved that I haven’t read (we often parallel read in order to discuss): the Orange Eats Creeps. so I think I’ll read it then. Even though I hate the idea of no more books she loved to be read.

It is a... choice to write an essay in the NYT correctly claiming this is a golden age of queer lit and not explicitly mention what had been happening over the last decade with trans lit specifically at all

I’ve been to a few more games, and watched the rest on TV… getting back into the wnba (I followed it as a teen and paid attention on and off since then, but i prefer to have a local team to support) has been such a helpful distraction these last few months.

Katie Kaput@katiekaput.bsky.social · 3mo ago

I went to see the Portland Fire the other night (I had actually considered going in on season tickets with a friend before Jet’s death, but decided to just go to the games as I feel able instead). Anyway, that was the most fun I’ve had in these three months. My favorite part of sports is 1/3

New today! Harry Dodge & Silas Howard, co-directors & stars of BY HOOK OR BY CROOK, sit down with Payton McCarty-Simas: "We could complain, but who would listen? You just had to make something. So we did! We made our own cafés, our own bands, our own record labels, our own movies, & it was great."

You Just Had to Make Something: An Interview with Harry Dodge & Silas Howard

Payton McCarty-Simas sits down with Harry Dodge and Silas Howard to talk about the 25th anniversary of their 2001 film, By Hook or by Crook.

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Watched the trailer for the new Jane Schoenbrun movie and then foolishly watched the trailer for I Saw the TV Glow. Seeing the new trailer already had me a bit weepy thinking how Jet will never see the film, and then watching the tv glow trailer got me crying about the talk we had after watching it.

I went to see the Portland Fire the other night (I had actually considered going in on season tickets with a friend before Jet’s death, but decided to just go to the games as I feel able instead). Anyway, that was the most fun I’ve had in these three months. My favorite part of sports is 1/3

I actually met someone in Portland who is a bit ahead of me on this loss journey but shares some of these other experiences (being queer and losing a queer young adult child). Still open to knowing more or, while I hope this never happens to anyone again, being there for someone if it does.

Katie Kaput@katiekaput.bsky.social · 5mo ago

Last week my younger child passed away. I’m hoping to find trans or queer people in PDX or maybe NYC or CT (I go there sometimes to visit my other child and his baby daughter) who have lost a teen or young adult child who might be interested in connecting. 1/2

I am subscribed so I get all the LittlePuss books as they come out (an option you can read about further in this thread), but if I wasn’t subscribed, I would, as always, pre-order and then when it gets closer forget that I pre-ordered and accidentally pre-order a second copy.

LittlePuss Press@littlepuss.net · 3mo ago

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this is reminding me of the last time I went out with a guy&he asked me what the statue of Joan of Arc in Portland was. I said “a statue of Joan of Arc.” he told me it wasn’t because that wouldn’t make sense. If I ever date again, potential dates will need more game than incorrect corrections.

Katie Kaput@katiekaput.bsky.social · 4mo ago

I probably saw this six times when I was 16. My friend McKay from Chicago Lesbian Avengers introduced me to it. One time I watched it and my Italian grandma was watching part of it and didn’t quite get what it was and after a while said “I had no idea Billie Jean King had such a life” 😍