Cognitive Cunt

@meelajay.blacksky.app

500 hr CYT. Doula of Doulas. Creator of Jijivisha Holistic. "Do That Shit Scared" "Joy is the cheat code" - Mee Everything I do is for Black women 🤞🏾 Detroit Girl. Eastside Made. Dexter Raised 💯 Years

Lots of us would rather focus on ANYTHING else but the brain is our strongest muscle It took years to build up the muscles of insecurity, comparison, and lack - and most often it wasn't our original thoughts that prompted the feeling, BUT it is our responsibility to find the root

My sister just posted a video of her with an ankle monitor on IG stories 😂 😂 BITCH!! How we supposed to go paddle boarding now?!? Told her I was making us matching anklets so now....

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Once you release yourself from that weird feeling you get when being identified as “wrong” … your life gets easier. Players fuck up. All you can really do is own up to it, acknowledge it and make amends (if one is required) You ain’t gotta carry that shit forever.

Taking the kid to the trampoline park the night after training seems like a mistake but she's coming out her room now that she leaves in 3 days 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

Friendships are a commitment too. A lot of people treat friendships like void fillers and even second fiddle for romantic relationships and wonder why they’re lacking in community. You don’t wanna sacrifice for folks. you don’t wanna do anything outside of for you…how is that community minded?

To go from immense gratitude to utter despair in the matter of moments is pretty painful... bc I know its illogical, but the chemical imbalance in my brain is stronger than any logic I present

I’m not mocking anyone experiencing Long COVID symptoms. 2020 kicked off a mass disabling event. Surviving that disease but being left with cognitive impairment and/or physical disabilities is hell. Our society has to adapt to the reality of those effects with support & compassion.

People are blaming it on her being a teenager, but nah. We were healthily inseparable before the pandemic then all hell broke loose and ruined the relationship I worked so hard to build, to make sure we were nothing like my mom and me Covid stole our closeness and it hurts so much

I used to be the driver, you could call me to drive you across the country and it would excite me I hate driving now bc ppl are so careless and the risks they be taking just don't make sense