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if I follow you and you say something embarrassing you owe me $100. 🏳️‍⚧️ she/her

Ever think about how the bar for “crazy online trannies” is like being noisy about our mistreatment and having vulnerable crash outs about our struggles, but cis people are out here doing like whatever the fuck lookmaxxing is and that’s apparently at the very least equivalent?

when i came out to my parents one of the first things my mother said was "i just worry that you're gonna be like one of those color-haired angry people i see on the news who throws a fit because someone doesn't use their pronouns" and i so wish i'd looked her in the eye and said "yuh huh!"

miss fern 🏳️‍⚧️😘@miss-fern.bsky.social · 4h ago

sometimes i'll talk to a cis person and they'll say something like "yeah most trans people are normal like you but sometimes online i see weird ones who-" and i have to stop them and explain that i, too, am one of the weird ones from online

sometimes i'll talk to a cis person and they'll say something like "yeah most trans people are normal like you but sometimes online i see weird ones who-" and i have to stop them and explain that i, too, am one of the weird ones from online

if you can’t give grace to a marginalized person who’s clearly having a bad time, when all it would take is ignoring them instead of giving into the urge to lash out, you don’t get to call yourself an ally.

morpheus doing the "here comes the airplane" routine with the pill as neo stubbornly refuses to open his mouth

I feel like trans people are at this point where we’re equivalent to abused shelter animals with celebrities. you make sure people know you support the concept of them getting help, maybe do a photo op to bolster your Good Person credentials, and then never think about it again

am i allowed to talk about how weird it is that the main way liberals philantropize trans people is by donating money to liberal nonprofits for call centers that beg us not to kill ourselves, instead of directly funding our material needs which, when deprived, lead to suicidality? is that allowed?

mady castigan✨ 🏳️‍⚧️@mady.cat · 6d ago

Sorry i meant to say we need more celebrities to donate $100 million to suicide hotlines so we can call someone who will beg us not to kill ourselves when the state takes away our medication and housing, and then send the cops to our home if we say the wrong series of words. My bad.

The only responsible attitude for liberals and progressives to align on is that all right-wing grievances, claims and believes are not only false, but malicious lies. Nothing passes the mouth of an American conservative in public life that is not meant to harm and destroy the lives of millions.

That's pretty much it. It's a good, solid movie, and instead of that being "Well yes, it's an expensive Hollywood production full of stars and shot around the world, they aren't going to botch that" it feels like manna because most big Hollywood productions now are Captain Glurpo 14.

TK’s Home Furniture@archivedspork.bsky.social · last wk.

I feel like The Odyssey feels like a better movie than it actually is because movie’s are such shit now. Like 40 years ago it would have been the fun, enjoyable summer blockbuster but A Room With A View would still have won Best Adapted Screenplay

hell, *I* wanted to stay nonbinary and not claim womanhood because *claiming* womanhood, despite how badly i wanted it, was the scary part. far less stressful to imagine just being a crossdressing queer twink around a very select friend circle while presenting masc around family/coworkers

Cirice Gray @House of the Underworld out now!@ciricegray.itch.io · 2w ago

My experience as someone that was nb -> trans woman was that people really wanted me to stay nb and not claim womanhood!

it's so awesome how trans women warned about and predicted much of what would happen years in advance and the collective response by much of the "community" was and still is isolating them or scolding them for their tone. nobody ever learns anything they just jump to save their own backs

They/Thempress@theythem.press · 2w ago

isabel fall was right, btw: “And the moment [queer activists’] work reached a usable stage—the moment society was ready to accept plastic gender, and scientists were ready to manipulate it—the military found a new resource…the military can make gender tactical.”

It's cool how PTSD from shooting people in a war of occupation buys a guy like Graham Planter consideration for domestic abuse and sexual assault, but PTSD from being victimized by domestic abuse and sexual assault buys fuck-all for like 75% of the trans women I know when they're a little snippy.

exclusively expressed interest in women, from the time puberty began till i came out as a trans woman at 33, and yet somehow everyone was completely caught off guard that i wasn't belatedly admitting "okay fine i like men" "we can always tell" my nonexistent testicles

Winter@kernowshark.bsky.social · 2w ago

"Trans women who like girls didn't get homophobic abuse when they were children because they were perceived as straight boys" I can see how a person would think that, but it sure wasn't my experience.

you are the beautifully unique culmination of every decision and lesson and smile and failure you’ve experienced, and you deserve love for that, and deserve to love yourself as that

it’s insanely funny that haus of decline’s content or publicly expressed views haven’t really meaningfully changed in years but within six months of coming out as a trans woman everyone gets mad at her like every three to six months

everyone who defends mocking andrew tate as 'being gay' for wearing a purple shirt with the 'logic' of 'yeah I know he's a serial rapist, that's why I'm mocking him' or anything along those lines is revealing that they think being gay is more shameful than being a serial rapist.

the thing you poll-brained losers don't seem to understand is you aren't just throwing *us* under the bus. you're throwing our families, our friends and loved ones, everyone who cares about us all under the bus, and you're announcing to everyone else that there is no solidarity in the party.

RoxyDog@roxydog.bsky.social · 2w ago

I understand your disappointment but why do you want to undermine the Democrat in this race? You think Ramaswamy will have your back? These purity tests are what gave us trump and his Supreme Court.