Tenacious Grace

@tenaciousgrace.bsky.social

Leader of Men, Champion of Justice, Purveyor of Fine Meats & Cheeses. She of Many Toilets. FOT. Friendly Southern Anarchist.

For most of history it would not be accurate to depict anyone other than the very rich as eating roast chicken. Chickens were primarily for eggs and would not be suitable for roasting when they stopped laying. Roasting chickens would have been raised special and would cost a goddamn fortune.

Daniel@deargodwhaat.bsky.social · 3w ago

Prompts a fun question: whats the most niche historical inaccuracy in a piece of work that annoys you Not like 'oh they were referring to the wrong king' , more 'they had the wrong king on a banknote in one scene'

On Weds, Sept 16 2026, 1067 days after being trapped with her 6 kittens... Fancy officially became a Lap Kitty. Did not just briefly visit - she stayed, cuddled, & fell asleep. She did it yesterday and today as well. She went from a skinny stray that wouldn't let me within 5 yards of her to THIS!

A black-and-white tuxedo cat with a brilliant white mustache marking and bright yellow eyes sits comfortably on a person's lap and looks off to the side.
Tenacious Grace@tenaciousgrace.bsky.social · last yr.

As a result of being a stray, Fancy had a heartworm infection. This is more dangerous in cats than in dogs because there is no treatment for cats. It can kill them suddenly and they don't always get rid of it on their own. But guess who tested negative for heartworms at her most recent vet visit?

I have never once been badgered by my parents to give them grandchildren or made to feel like less of a woman for choosing to remain permanently childfree. I have never been ashamed for choosing to focus on my own success. That would have been damn near unheard of even 30 years ago.

Nicole Bedera@nbedera.bsky.social · 2mo ago

I feel like we’re really overdue for a thread of things that have changed for women in your lifetime. I’m interested in good and bad things. Any little life moment that would feel unbelievable if it happened in 2026.

Parents of a baby who is not yet a year old, I have a PSA for you. Some of you may think that putting your baby in a pumpkin costume for Halloween is trite and overdone, that no one wants to see this. Friends, nothing could be further from the truth. A pumpkin is the S-Tier costume for babies.

Watching the new Harry Potter series is a clear signal that you'll support JK Rowling no matter how many lives she takes. It shows that holocaust denial and destroying human rights groups isn't a deal-breaker for you. It has never been easier to take the right side of history.

🎃🧛🏾Vita Ahhhh-yala👻🙀@definitelyvita.bsky.social · 2mo ago

I genuinely am begging people not to watch the new HP show. Like, also don't buy any branded stuff - she makes money off all that. But especially don't watch the damn show.

If the last few days have given me nothing else, they have really solidified how I want to be remembered when I die: with tremendous initial grief followed by an outpouring of stories about what a fucking baddie I was.

I was talking to someone about cat allergies and it reminded me of one of my favorite memories of my mother from childhood. I told Mom that I thought I might be allergic to our cats and she replied, "Well what the heck do you want me to do about it?" Not having a cat is not an option for my mom.

I don't have kids and I am never going to have kids but seeing all my friends' kids going back to school makes me feel weepy in a good way. Look at all my little pals growing and learning! I remember when you were a baby and now you are giant!

The thing is, other countries have been here and worse and have reversed course. I don't care how uncool hoping for better is in this nihilistic cesspool of algorithmically engaging rage, I'm gonna keep hoping for better and not wash my hands of the small day to day human things we can each do.