Theo

@theokane.bsky.social

Author, cat person, plant daddy, comic nerd, and book lover. 🚫 AI. They/he. In my garden in Seattle. 🏳️‍⚧️🏳️‍🌈 sliverofice.com/links

Please bathroom attendant at this budget resort tell me what gender you think I am more quickly so I can have my traveler's diarrhea in the "correct" binary gendered restroom.

Noticing some folks seem to think writers just say clever things without understanding how the world works, as if we're all naifs who just happen to be good with words instead of people with formal educations and a professional interest verging on requirement in the ability to conduct research

The gag to the whole "being a master writer" is that it means absolutely nothing in the long term because you should always strive to keep your skills honed and to keep learning. And there are only 3 ways to do that: read, write, and get honest feedback. The learning never ends.

If every life has equal value, every loss deserves equal mourning. My latest column examines why Seattle rallies after some tragedies but too often looks away when violence strikes Rainier Beach, Hillman City, Brighton, and other South Seattle neighborhoods.

COLUMN | Gun Violence Didn't Move to Seattle Center. Our Attention Did.

Seattle rallied when gun violence struck its "civic living room." Marcus Harrison Green asks why South End deaths have so rarely received the same urgency.

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90th read of 2026: DILF: Did I Leave Feminism? by Jude Doyle I’ve been following Doyle’s writing since long before either of us transitioned. This book addresses all the ways in which feminism and gender liberation (trans rights) cannot exist without each other. A must-read. 5/5 stars #Booksky

Book cover for DILF: Did I Leave Feminism? by Jude Doyle

Features an ombre of pastel colors and the title in swoopy white letters.
Theo@theokane.bsky.social · 2w ago

89th read: Thirty Love by Tom Vellner For a slow burn, there wasn’t enough yearning between Leo & Gabe. Part of the problem is Leo's single POV. Because of the slow burn, there's a lot of tennis in this. While this didn’t wow me, I’d read more from Vellner. 3/5 stars #Booksky #Romancelandia

Book cover for Thirty Love by Tom Vellner

Cover features an illustration of two men standing in front of a tennis net with a court and stadium behind them. The men are almost kissing. The man on the left is a white man with blonde hair. He's wearing a white polo shirt and blue shorts. On the right is a Latino man with dark curly hair. He's wearing a black tank top that shows off his muscles and matching shorts. His wrist has a white sweatband, and he's holding a red tennis racket.

IMO the fund free lunches for all Seattle public school students was not about the students. They were the victims of Hollingsworth telegraphing herself as "the adult who makes hard choices" vs "irresponsible and naive" Mayor Wilson, so Hollingsworth can construct a record to run for Mayor in 2029.

Seattle is essentially a deep blue one-party town, so our political poles have mutated in an interesting way. We now have 2 parties: The "Cities Are Good, Actually, and We Can Have Nice Things" Party and the "Cities Are Bad, Actually and We Can't Afford Nice Things (Unless It's for the Cops)" Party

On The View, soccer champ Megan Rapinoe brought attention to the dangers of WA's I-638, the most extreme MAGA measure of its kind in the US. "It's more than just a couple of trans kids being able to participate in youth sports. It's an attack on women." Vote NO on I-638 this November. #NoHateWAState

I wish the nice, liberal cis ladies in my political group would stop reading the NYT, Seattle Times, and Atlantic, especially op-eds. I'm so tired of debunking the manufactured outrage.

How should progressives in Seattle vote without using the Stranger? I just filled out my ballot, and this cheat sheet was how. I know a lot about most races. But where I didn’t, I looked at this site. Where there wasn’t consensus, I went to @theurbanist.org to read their excellent analysis.

Lefty Cheat Sheet@electioncheatsheet.org · 3w ago

Are you voting this weekend? Wondering how lefty organizers on the ground are thinking about this primary? ElectionCheatSheet.org has you covered no matter the level of detail! Switch from a quick voter guide, to deep research on each lefty orgs’ endorsement pages, in just a few taps!

Two column cheatsheet view: a quick glance at each race in ballot order, along with how much lefty orgs’ endorsements are in agreement: 100% mean everyone is endorsing the same person, <50% means they can’t agree

Granted, I may not be able to *prove* that reading Bram Stoker’s Dracula in a dimly-lit café in Prague on a rainy day whilst having cappuccinos and croissants exponentially improves mental well-being, but you're failing to acknowledge a very important point: You can't prove that it *doesn't*.