CLIENTS: If you have the privilege of meeting my cat, do not just assume she wants to be pet!! It doesn’t matter if you’ve had cats before. They’re not all the same. I explain to every guest how to engage (or not) w/ her, but not everyone listens. Respect her boundaries & space or I WILL END YOU. 💔
Aiko Chimera - Chicago
@aikochimera.com
Relational + Intimacy Coaching for Men Social/Emotional Support / Cuddling Platonic + GFE Companionship / FBSM aikochimera.com
I don’t chase attention. I decide who earns it. link in bio.
I wrote a little something on Substack about consent, eroticism and a viral voice memo 🧡 open.substack.com/pub/gemdemil...
So many clients want as much access to us as possible without even doing the bare minimum. And yet, we as providers already give so much to those we do grant access. If you want to stand out from the masses, all you have to do is be respectful, considerate, and generous.✨
When you book a companion you aren’t just booking a hot girl. You are getting access to a person who is deeply embodied in their own sexuality & pleasure, allowing you a safe space to explore your own and live a little vicariously through.
It’s been a stressful year, but I’m trying to find small things to smile about 💖
Love when a door closes & immediately a way better one opens. Some energy is not worthy of being in your vicinity.
If it requires fake smiling, bad food, and pointless small talk, count me out.
Wrote a blog post for my new service: Social/Emotional Support! 💖 We all have the need to be seen & witnessed thru our milestones, triumphs & grief. I’ll be that kind & caring support for you. 🩵 www.aikochimera.com/rates www.aikochimera.com/blog/the-need-to-be-seen 📸 @inamorataphoto.bsky.social
In a society that's rapidly losing the ability to know what's real, remember those of us who understand the value of in person relating and offer up our skills and presence for that absolutely real experience.
Gazing towards another rotation around the sun. (It’s my birthday next week 💕)
Reminder that whether you came out yesterday or you've been out your whole life, whether you're an egg or you've been transitioning for years, whether you're medically or socially transitioning, both, or neither, whether you're binary or nonbinary, whether you have one gender, many, or none...
Woah 😍 I just had a quick look at Aiko’s site and their services are so interesting and lovely. I’m endlessly fascinated by providers working at the intersection of SW & various forms of relational work, touch therapy, etc. SW is expansive and naturally overlaps with so many other specializations ✨💕
I just added more options for Intimacy Coaching! 💖 www.aikochimera.com/rates
This is my precious angel — she grounds me with unconditional love & joy in a world of chaos 💗 I turn 39 in July 🥳 and all I want for my birthday are gift cards for my cat so that even when resources are low, I can keep giving her the best life possible 🥹💘 www.aikochimera.com/wishlist
Asked the TSA agent if I could opt out of facial recognition and he exclaimed “Absolutely!!”, as if he had been waiting for that question all day.
one more rotation around the sun 🫶🏼💫 so much love and heat and gratitude to all of my lovers, colleagues, friends, and the sacred path of being a Whore 🫀💘💋⛲️🕊️
Had a new client send a thoughtful & respectful email explaining he had a change of heart & would not be booking. I always appreciate when clients actually let me know that they’ve changed their minds instead of just ghosting. It takes 2 minutes to respond & will forever leave a good impression.✨
I’m stepping out of my comfort zone, and finally doing a little Chicago tour. Eek, I’m so excited. My dates are June 24th-27th. It’s been ages since I’ve been in this gorgeous city, and would love nothing more than dinner dates, lunch dates and museums dates with you. Let’s have a summer romance! ✨
🥳EARLY BIRTHDAY WISHLIST🎂 My biggest birthday wish is to fully repair and finish my klunker bicycle project 💖 If you're interested in helping me achieve that goal this month, please check out my wishlist here!!!! www.amazon.com/hz/wishlist/...
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-I don’t care if you’ve “always wanted to be with an Asian woman.” -I don’t care if you think “Asian women are the most beautiful.” -I don’t care if you’re pining for “the one Asian woman who got away” (good for her) & are looking for a replacement. ✨I’m not here to be fetishized, so fuck off.✨
Respect is part of the experience. Clear boundaries create comfort, trust, and discretion for everyone involved. Those who honor them are always welcome. Those who do not are simply not the right fit.
Happening tonight 💙 Our BIPOC-only support space is a place to work through stress & frustration that can come with being a POC content creator. Connect with peers, share experiences, & explore coping strategies with @JetSetJasmine & @BIPOC_AIC. Join: pineapplesupport.org/support-grou
Finally letting my natural grays grow out & I love it! Doesn’t show that well on camera, but it’s a stark contrast in person❣️ It’s only been a few months & will likely take a few years for the grays to catch up to my length, but after dying my hair for 15 yrs, it feels good to just let it be 😌🩶
And believe it or not, sex workers are part of this ecosystem. All the more reason for full decriminalization.
Community, belonging, pleasure, environments that allow for nervous system and emotional regulation are part of our overall health and well being. We need the small pleasures of our minds and bodies, as much as calories and a sense safety, to thrive
Over 30 sex workers thread! Quote with a pic and your age. ✨️44✨️ And I'm the hottest I've ever felt. Don't be scared of aging sweet ones. It's a blessing 😘
Over 30 sex workers thread! Quote with a pic and your age. ✨ 41 ✨
One of the bravest things you can do is love yourself.