it makes me angry and sad that there are girls who are adamant about bringing /tttt/ brainworms along to trans spaces where it isnt in a delusion that ironic detachment is the bastion of Actually Trans, but you are just harming kind and often vulnerable women for no reason other than your dumb ego
the single best thing i did as a trans woman outside of transition was find community irl, it feels incredible to be impervious to online brain worms discourse, we just talk about board/video games and share upcoming events and commiserate, its the best and if you havent done it, try your hardest