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CRover ~~ ally 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍🌈

@crover98.bsky.social

Curious, sympathetic, adventurous, human (he/him).

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Violet "Vi" Rollergirl • NYC🗽 touring ✈️ AMS 🇳🇱 8/30-9/10@violetrollergirl.com · 22h ago

This topic came up during a multi-hour date with one of my favorite clients recently, and I've been thinking a lot about it ever since (and before). This client is a fav partly because, even though he didn't originally seek or book me for this, he Gets It, and we've since grown ever closer. 🧵 One…

Charlotte Maeve | Toronto & FMTY@curvycompanion.bsky.social · last wk.

Boundaries are beautiful.They’re what shape and guide our relationships in life and allow them to flourish rather than dwindle. They keep the fire going opposed to suffocating it.

Kathryn Tewson@kathryntewson.bsky.social · yesterday

A PSA to my fellow cis people who are (or want to believe they are) trans allies If you are getting pushback from trans people and your reaction is to be all “no! not me! I’m one of the good ones!” please remember that “being one of the good ones” is something you DO, not something you ARE

Mike Stabile@mikestabile.bsky.social · 2d ago

The SCREEN Act is not just another age-verification bill — it goes much further than anything passed at the state-level or in other countries. 1. The bill doesn't just target porn sites. It goes after *any* site that allows material "harmful" to minors. You'd have to scan your face to use Google.

(3) COVERED PLATFORM.— The term "covered platform" - (A) means an entity - (i) that is an interactive computer service; (ii) that- (I) is engaged in interstate or foreign commerce; or (Il) purposefully avails itself of the United States market or a portion thereof; and (iïi) for which it is in the regular course of the trade or business of the entity to create, host, or make available content that meets the definition of harmful to minors under paragraph (4) and that is provided by the entity, a user, or other intration conten provider, with
Evie★NYC@meetevienyc.bsky.social · last wk.

TLDR YOU SHOULD CARE ABOUT AND FOR THE PEOPLE YOU FUCK 💋💋💋 It is actually really simple, it's an opportunity to practice curiosity and always be learning more (because literally every single person is different, and people change day to day).

Evie★NYC@meetevienyc.bsky.social · 2w ago

i would recommend you cease approaching sex like a treasure hunt/target practice (yah 😬) frantically trying to locate certain body parts because you think of them like an easy button for pleasure. because that's like a medical exam not sex

CRover ~~ ally 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍🌈@crover98.bsky.social · 2w ago

Nice blog posts about privacy-preserving cryptocurrency in an industry where privacy is vital. One thing Vi does that I wish more here would do: she publicly posts her shielded @z.cash address (see her link-in-bio), making it easy to send tips, for example as thanks for insightful posts. 🧵

Violet "Vi" Rollergirl • NYC🗽 touring ✈️ AMS 🇳🇱 8/30-9/10@violetrollergirl.com · 2w ago

The 2nd post in my cryptocurrency series for @tryst.link is up now: tryst.link/blog/how-cry... This one goes into initial detail on why using privacy coins such as @z.cash with self-custodial wallet apps like @zodl.com and NOT exchange accounts like CashApp or Coinbase is important for sex workers.

Lorenzo Franceschi-Bicchierai@lorenzofb.bsky.social · 2w ago

NEW: Hackers are currently exploiting two critical WordPress flaws, which were patched on Friday, to remotely hack and take over websites, according to several cybersecurity firms. Around 90 million websites could still be vulnerable, according to an estimate by a security researcher.

Hackers are exploiting recently patched WordPress bugs, putting millions of websites at risk | TechCrunch

Two critical security flaws in WordPress’ software have given hackers the chance to remotely take over tens of millions of websites, according to an estimate by a cybersecurity researcher.

techcrunch.com

CRover ~~ ally 🏳️‍⚧️ 🏳️‍🌈@crover98.bsky.social · 3w ago

Used properly, following Violet's clear guides, it helps anyone concerned about privacy or de-banking, not just sex workers.

Violet "Vi" Rollergirl • NYC🗽 touring ✈️ AMS 🇳🇱 8/30-9/10@violetrollergirl.com · 3w ago

Using cryptocurrency correctly solves every single one of my financial problems as a sex worker. That's not hyperbole. It solves every. Single. One. The ONLY one it doesn't solve is clients refusing to use it with me. And so I have workarounds for that, to make it easy for them. Here's a breakdown.

Peaches Slater ✨️ PDX July 18 - Aug 9 ✨️@peachesslater.bsky.social · 3w ago

"V-coding is the common practice of subjecting trans women to sexual assault by placing the woman in the same prison cell as an aggressive male inmate in order to placate ... caused the daily rapes of multiple trans women, and the sexual assaults of 58.5% of them." en.wikipedia.org/wiki/V-coding

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Alejandra Caraballo@esqueer.net · 3w ago

At this point, it's basically a monthly thing where the NY Times has some boomer Dem write a piece saying the party should abandon trans people.

A screenshot of a digital article header under the category "OPINION / GUEST ESSAY". The headline reads in large white text: "Three Things Democrats Have to Do if They Actually Want to Win", with a publication date of "July 14, 2026, 5:05 a.m. ET". Below the headline is a photograph showing a blue, red, and silver softball or baseball bat secured diagonally to a white poster board using three pieces of silver duct tape. The background consists of out-of-focus green foliage.
Evie★NYC@meetevienyc.bsky.social · 2mo ago

Hey guys. There is never ever any judgement about going soft. However, you absolutely cannot go soft and stay inside/expect to keep penetrating your partner without majorly risking condom failure and harming your partner. It is your responsibility to be monitoring this as it is on your body

Joshua Erlich@joshuaerlich.bsky.social · 2mo ago

I hope this comes out right and in a not at all creepy way: I watch online over the years as so many of my trans friends change and evolve into having bodies that match their true identities and it makes me so happy for all of you. I don’t usually say anything but I see it and I love it for you.

emily sunshine@threnody.northsky.social · 2mo ago

9 years ago, i came out to my wife as nonbinary because i thought it was too late & i could survive it “as a compromise” (not how gender works). ~4 years ago, i came out to her again like, “but it’s way too late now; i wouldn’t survive full-on transition.” 3 years ago today, i did my first shot. 🎂

nine emilys from the past year. she’s a white woman with what many emilys are saying is too many tattoos, but whatever. she’s blonde in them all, as this is the age of emily sunshine. (tag - self-destruct)
Tilly Bridges@tillybridges.bsky.social · 3mo ago

CIS PEOPLE TIME TO STEP UP it’s once again time to yell at our bad government via online comment form the FCC is trying to make trans and nonbinary content require special ratings on shows GLAAD has a good writeup on it below TELL ‘EM NO direct link to comment form: www.fcc.gov/ecfs/filings...

Tell the FCC that LGBTQ Stories Don’t Need a Warning Label | GLAAD

The Federal Communications Commission (FCC) is targeting LGBTQ stories. They are trying to control what you see on television. This government overreach is dangerous...

glaad.org

Kaycee Bee 💙 Mistress Blue@kinkycurvyblue.bsky.social · 4mo ago

The lie of "porn addiction" is not about giving men an out. It is about control of the population through shame. Do some men grab the label to use as a no-accountability clause? Do women not understand that labeling every man they see as having "problematic viewing habits" having addiction is...

Doc Impossible@impossiblephd.bsky.social · 5mo ago

Hey, you. Yeah you. You, specifically. That part of yourself that you're ashamed of? Maybe it's your gender, maybe it's That Thing You Love In Bed, maybe it's someone you did wrong by? It's okay. You're not alone. And you're worthy of love just as you are, warts and all.

Marcy@deadheadgirly.bsky.social · 5mo ago

Hey cis allies: could you do us trans folks a favor? The next time you hear someone talk "mutilating surgeries on kids" as a talking point about trans health care- please- loudly call that shit out. Trans minors almost never receive gender affirming surgeries, and for the most part, never have. 🧵