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Software engineer @Postman, views expressed are my own. Here for accessible design tips, red pandas, and music. He/Him. Queer.

Oh FFS. I was straight until I was 40. Then I learned I could love women, too. Still married to my husband. Just polyamorous. And I do strongly prefer men, but there have been outliers. I'm feminist AF, but not serving the patriarchy like you're doing here. Your claims otherwise are absurd.

The Walrus@thewalrus.ca · last mo.

Straight women are often portrayed as people who must endure male desire rather than enthusiastically embrace it. Cultural critic Phoebe Maltz Bovy argues that feminism has lost sight of a simple fact: plenty of women genuinely want men. https://thewalrus.ca/are-there-any-straight-women-left/

On the left: an image of a woman in white facing the camera and holding pink flowers. She's surrounded on either side by men with their backs turned. On the right: text that reads “Are there any straight women left? We live in a time where desiring men makes you reactionary, prudish, conventional, or even ick.”

Glasses are hot. Glasses make average people look hot and hot people look hotter. Glasses are also a disability accommodation that everyone accepts without suggesting that people who wear glasses are "cheating" or getting "special treatment." All accommodations should be accepted like glasses.

Mara Wilson@marawilson.bsky.social · last yr.

Yes, he’s a genius, once in a generation talent, but can we also talk about how fucking good this man looks in glasses

Kendrick Lamar looking absolutely adorable in a pair of glasses

Today, the UK government announced a proposal to change copyright law - for the benefit of AI companies - that would cause huge, irreversible harm to creators. More info below, but most importantly here's what you can do (wherever you live): 1. Email your MP. Template letter in 🧵 👇 1/10

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I've mentioned before, but I think about this a lot: "There must be another room, somewhere down the hall, where the real meeting is happening, where the real experts are, making the real decisions ... because it can’t just be us. It can’t just be this." -- Jake Sullivan, 2013

Bit of a weirdo blog post that's been rattling through my brain recently. There are some interesting parallels between anxiety & optimisation and, for me at least, the tools I use for one can be pretty damn useful when dealing with the other Let me know what you think <3 write.as/delete44/on-...

On anxiety & premature optimisation

I understand computers much better than I understand people. And I barely understand computers, so lord knows how I get through the day...

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