Larre Bildeston

@larreau.bsky.social

Writer, artist, parent, carer. Autistic and aspec. Australia via Aotearoa, (soft) atheist. Agender. Pronouns: I want to say “any” since I’m collecting A words. (they/them actually). DMs inaccessible due to Aus age verification. larre.bildeston@yahoo.com

This article opens by saying there's a 'surging demand' for 'diagnoses of neurodiversity'. I'm sorry to inform you the neurodiversity rate amongst the population is 100%. What you probably meant was 'neurodivergence'. This is not just me being pedantic... www.theguardian.com/society/2026...

NHS bodies in England impose two-year minimum wait for ADHD and autism assessments

Patient groups decry ‘scandalous’ delays as four integrated care boards take step due to soaring demand for diagnoses

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With Ace Week🖤🩶🤍💜 coming up Oct 25-31st, I'm putting together an Itchio bundle called 'Asexuals on Adventures'. Main criteria: at least one main character is somewhere on the asexual spectrum (aro-ace is fine👋) and see eligibility graphic for 'Adventure'!⬇️ Sign up form: on my discord or I can DM!

Asexuals on Adventures, Coming Oct 19-31st on Itchio.

Ace flag and purple background.

Main text: 'Adventure' for the purpose of this bundle could be of a fantastical, scientific, or other speculative nature, or historical. Ideally it involves travel/ exploration, and may involve quests (from personal in scale, to save a people/ save the world.)

Eligibility & Genre: 
At least one Main Character is somewhere on the asexual spectrum.
Plot-central ace (and LGBTQIA+) themes are welcome, but not required.

Adventure. There needs to be a big adventure, ideally one involving geographical travel. Eg. Exploring space/ a fantasy world, time travel, an alternate history, an underworld of demons, a society of vampires. Sexual exploration involving long distance travel and experiences of other places (eg a road trip) is welcome. Murder mysteries involving long distance travel (eg. multi city/ country investigations and some experience of those places) are welcome.

Given Adventure, I'm anticipating Fantasy, SciFi & other Speculative Fiction. Possibly Historical, mystery/ crime, romance, NSFW.

Preorders: Pre-orders are welcome, if your book releases within 5 weeks of the bundle's end date. Please state the release date in your Itch book description, so readers know when they can download your book.

Categories: YA and Adult Fiction, novellas and full length novels.

Me trying to make new friends my own age: “So which midlife crisis are you having? Are you having the type of midlife crisis where you & all of your lifelong friends find out you’re all autistic, or the type where you start going on group vacations with people you met on a cruise?”

This is the bullshit you get back when you tell a company you won't be buying any more of their product because they are sending money directly to a transphobe with their Harry Potter licenced goods, and ask them to terminate the partnership.

Thank you for taking the time to share your concerns with us.

I’m genuinely sorry to hear how strongly our decision to offer Harry Potter merchandise has affected you and your family. I completely understand that this is a deeply personal and important issue, and I appreciate you taking the time to explain your perspective.

We understand the Harry Potter series means many things to different people. Our Harry Potter-inspired collection has been created in partnership with Warner Bros. Discovery Global Consumer Products and is designed to celebrate the values within the wizarding world: kindness, inclusivity and bravery.

We truly appreciate you sharing your perspective with us, and I’m sorry that our collection has left you feeling this way. Your feedback is important, and we’ll ensure it is heard by the relevant team.

We're here to help with any questions about your order or our products, and we appreciate you taking the time to let us know your perspective.

Kindest regards,

Kaia

I'm of the view that Japanese language attracts a lot of Autistic students, as does living as a foreigner in Japan. There are many reasons for this. For me, it was the joy of seeing how well Japanese fits together. It's wonderful for pattern seeking brains. #AutChat

#AutChat Mod@autchatmod.bsky.social · 2w ago

Q3: What was easy about learning the new language? What was hard? Do you think being autistic/similarly neurodivergent contributed to this? #AutChat

Filled with animosity for my local libraries, who are doing a big push this month to get patrons to read The Philosopher's Stone, available in "every" language. Yeah, they know. *I, for one, have previously complained

CW: suicide If you’re any bit at all invested in preventing suicide, rather than posting bland “talk to someone” admonitions, yell at elected officials about ensuring chronic pain is adequately treated. I have lost too many friends and mentors this way, and it’s harder year after year.

"They are designing the system thinking that most disabled people are only disabled for discrete periods of time. They are designing the system thinking that the “real” disabled people will be on NDIS and everyone else doesn’t really need help because they’re not really disabled"

Disability supports in Australia make me want to scream - Normal Ness

I’ve written about my attempt to get non-NDIS supports. In 2024, in 2025, then the complaint I lodged… I’ve written about how Foundational Supports could be done well if they tried.   For even more re...

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I've spent hours this week finally making the switch from Apple to Android. Pain in the butt process. I had an iPhone mini, which I loved the size of. This Samsung Galaxy is too damn big for my hands and my pockets. *feminist issue

PVN2099@pvn2099.bsky.social · 2w ago

Tech was all in on “big screen good.“ Apple was the lone holdout worrying about silly things like “ergonomics” and ”pocket fit.“ The public eventually forced them to move, and now everyone wonders why their pinky fingers are randomly cramping.