I'm not much of a video guy, but you should definitely watch this one. The choice is *always* between democracy and some form of authoritarianism. It's never between democracy and something you find nicer. It is never, as some libertarians have put it, a choice between democracy and free markets.
You cannot understand democracy if you don't understand the alternatives. I walk through them in this video youtu.be/C_tz9Af8IAk