The Argen Connection

@hazardous-waist.bsky.social

[:•:] 22 | She/Her | MINORS DNI 🔞 | Your favorite least favorite mercenary

Fucking hell. I am obscenely, painfully, inconsolably ravenous tonight I could plow a dozen broken knights into the dirt 'til I was licking their blood from my teeth and it wouldn't do a fucking thing I need... More. I need something substantial to sink my claws into.

[with the self control of a child trying not to blurt out a secret] stop being wierd to dommes, stop being weird to subs, stop acting like you know peoples relationships, stop acting like authorities on things you don't know, stop infringing on spaces that aren't yours, sit down be quiet grow up

People see us talking and their reaction is "erm this is so confusing!!! I thought being butch was this?!?" because they can't actually accept that this is a topic with deep nuance and personal context, nor do they ever want to actually just talk to us or ask. They want a clean label to slap on us.

And it's tiring. Being constantly objectified like this, and on top of that, having our identities treated as indecipherable enigmas, while at the same time, being a topic of debate by non-butches. I talk about my identity and relationship to gender a lot w/ other butches. Very few others care.

And this manifests in the above, or assuming we don't care about or put effort or deliberation into our appearance, or expecting us to be dispensers of sexual attention in the form of penetration and assertion, putting the entire burden of pursuit upon us.