Kate Tbd

@katexas.bsky.social

Baltimore now. Hurricane prone areas before. Immigration, urbanism, public transit and walkability, OFMD “a normal amount”, SNL, art & creative reuse. she/her

I see we're doing "everything is worse" now for Discourse tonight. It's not, but the thing about this argument is that IT DOESN'T MATTER. You cannot pick and choose when you live. You can only live forward. So fix what you can and enjoy what's good instead of pining for when you were a child.

One of the things you get from watching tributes to Glen Hansard is that he was a musician’s musician. His peers really respected him. But also he was so kind to random people. And that seems sort of perfect. To be respected both by the people who deeply understand what you do and those who don’t.

2006 was a year of a lot of complicated feelings and I was still riding a wave of nostalgia from spending a third of 2003 in Ireland when I saw Once as an in flight movie and downloaded all the songs. Thank you Glen Hansard for being part of that and rest in peace.

Rich Wojcicki@rpdub.bsky.social · last wk.

Devastated. Was lucky enough to see Swell Season at Radio City. During Say it to Me Now, Glen Hansard walked away from mic & screamed it into the theater w/ them lovely Irish pipes. After the applause died he returned to the mic & whispered “brilliant” Truly brilliant 💔 youtube.com/watch?v=JMqK...

hey does anyone out there have any resources for queer friendly shelters in the Indianapolis area? friend of mine needs some help. spread this around if you could i’ll pass on anything you send my way to her

Jaywick today. Lovely big walk. My son thinks every cat is called Barry, because one of our cats is called Barry. He just says 'Hello Barry' to all the cats. Perhaps this should be a thing 🤷🏻‍♀️

View of the foot/cycle path from Clacton to Jaywick with ye olde Martello tower, beach and a maniac 2yr old running in shotManiac two year old laughs at a cat after calling it Barry

Even 100,000 feels small, less than half the size of anywhere else I’ve lived that wasn’t on this map. Baltimore has gone from a peak of 950,000 in 1950 to closer to 570,000 today but I’m glad to be part of the +750 who arrived in 2024.

kottke.org@kottke.org · last wk.

A map of the 21 US cities that used to have a population of 100,000 people but don’t anymore. A lot of them are in the Rust Belt: Youngstown, OH’s population fell from 170,000 in 1970 to 60,000 in 2020. [kottke.org]

This right here is why "see, they're doing gender-affirming care!" jokes don't land with me. There's a difference between affirming gender as a spectrum within which people are flexible, and reinforcing gender as a hierarchical binary, even if the means (hormone treatments, surgery) are the same.

Briar Ripley Page@flameswallower.bsky.social · last wk.

Instead, it’s about wanting to reify a supposedly-natural sex binary & address fascist cis male insecurity; the idea is that more testosterone will make a cis man look and behave more “like a man” than he already does (“behave like a man” here meaning the worst war crime shit you can imagine).