Third Crow

@thirdcrow.bsky.social

(He/him) Cat herder, dog entertainer and ttrpg enthusiast. ActuallyAutistic and perpetually aching. Old like hills are old but less soothing to look at. I ran away to Portugal 🇵🇹

Deliberately *not explaining* something or stopping part way through is *hard*. But, if you recognise that little change in tone in the other person’s voice, you know it’s stop now or a situation will arise. Meanwhile, still feeling misunderstood. 🤦🏻‍♂️

A nice morning to be up on scaffolding at the back of my house, but it’s starting to warm up now the sun has moved around. Fixing insulation on the back of the kitchen wall before the weather gets colder and wetter.

A photo of a gentle valley in Portugal. The sky is deep blue, there are trees in the grass and on the other side of the valley. There are a couple of small stone buildings in the distance.The ancient terracotta tiles of a small building can be seen bottom right, below the level of the scaffolding I was standing on.

When Star Trek IV came out (1986), the idea that Scotty tried to talk to a computer (travelling back to 1986 because plot) was like “oh, future techno men and their fancy ways”. Watching the clip again, it looks more like “your funny grandad who doesn’t know how computers work, eh Siri?”.

Trying to answer q.37 of the RAADS-R questionnaire, “I am an understanding type of person”, and I’m derailed. Does it mean “I can understand information”, “I can understand what people say”, “I understand their problems”, “I understand that we all make mistakes”, …

Sitting in a room on my own and just *clearly* heard a man’s voice go “mmm-hmm” off to my left. Very odd… Checked phone, it’s on silent mode and computer too. No-one outside (and double glazing too). 🤔

When I was a kid, other kids, teachers & other kid's parents identified that I was "weird." But kids are weird & I was maybe just a bit weirder than most. As an adult, a few neurodivergent people suggested to me that I might be neurodivergent or explicitly that I might have ADHD. I laughed it off. 🧵

Ben Potts@ben-potts.bsky.social · 3w ago

A journal editorial asked whether autism has lost its meaning. A documentary asked whether ADHD is real. My new blog post is about what that does to the people who then say nothing. blogs.city.ac.uk/needs/autism...

Just went to get some cutlery and found *a rogue fork* in there that I’ve never seen before. I have questions, possibly interrogations. It’s not a *good* fork, either. 🕵️

#ActuallyAutistic folks, I’m looking for *good* recommendations for books about relationships where one parter is autistic. The ones I’ve looked at so far seem to be written by allistic authors and focus on how to cope with your pesky autistic partner. 🤦🏻‍♂️

The joys of realising small things. I just spent an hour writing some python code to brute force the statistics for exploding dice because I thought it would be *complicated* to calculate. Looking at the results, I immediately realised it’s *ridiculously simple* and I should have known.

Bookbinders seem like an excellent crowd. I made a spreadsheet to calculate the pieces for a lectern book a few years ago and stuck it on itch. I made it for myself (amateur bookbinder and lover of maths) but figured someone, someday might find it useful.

New piece on Uta Frith’s recent statements here, originally written for The National Survivor User Network. (I’ll confess: when I first read ‘autism’s become broad, too broad’, I thought she meant too Northern)

Uta Frith confirms my longstanding grudge against psychology: there’s a problem with power and…

A new paper by developmental psychologist Uta Frith claims that the diagnostic threshold for autism has become ‘too broad’, to the point…

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