Tillytools

@tillytools.bsky.social

23, Any/All. I like to write and talk about art. I will occasionally repost NSFW. Sometimes I draw...

I really am so much worse then the person i’m dating, at least in regards to what we hope will come from our relationship. I don’t expect anything from them though, I want them to be perfectly happy.. But maybe you cant be happy without a little strife from third parties? It’s all exhausting.

It’s like.. You love someone for a long time so you develop a kind of blindness to them. It’s hard to let go of that bias even after it’s over for some people when more than anything they want to be amiable. But maybe that’s a mistake.

If you keep forgiving someone’s red flags because it’d hurt to tell them fuck off, imagine how it’s going to hurt when you’re stuck in a decade long relationship that leaves you a fried mind of a person. Just tell someone off, hurt them once so you can be happy, I wish we weren’t scared of that.