Violet Coal

@violetcoalwrites.bsky.social

Working-class writer. ND sex worker. Sharing stories of survival, trauma, & triumph. Crafting essays, fiction & more. Trying to thrive not survive. Words not body. She/her.

My gp is amazing. I had blood tests recently. Another doctor called, not my usual. He said i'm mildly anaemic - my choice if I get supplements. Asked if my diet changed, I said we are temporarily reliant on foodbanks. "Ok. Just eat more veg and red meat." I didn't bother saying anything (1/4)

I have had to claim UC again recently during a period of ill health. They've been monstrous to deal with. It has felt they have actively done anything they can to make applying as difficult as possible. Assuming I survive, I have a fire in belly and a lot of receipts. Fuck that system.

The regime wants to gut the law that allows women to get loans and mortgages without needing a male co signor. This can’t be allowed to happen. Without financial freedom, women become trapped with their fathers & husbands. They become property again.

I've been blocked from seeing my kids again this weekend. My ex is probably a psychopath (i know it is a term that is overused but not this in this case, imo) Please. It you can help me access christmas with my children, I will repay as soon as i can, either back personally or pay it forward.

Violet Coal@violetcoalwrites.bsky.social · 10mo ago

Thanks so much for the shares and donations. I've had a quiet and peaceful weekend with my kids. I really love this painting by my daughter, inspired by the show Uncanny. I only have a WIP from my son's Ender dragon drawing but i'll get a photo of the finished piece tomorrow because it is amazing!

Thanks so much for the shares and donations. I've had a quiet and peaceful weekend with my kids. I really love this painting by my daughter, inspired by the show Uncanny. I only have a WIP from my son's Ender dragon drawing but i'll get a photo of the finished piece tomorrow because it is amazing!

Drawing and painting of mysterious character in red cloak. No features  visible
Drawing of minecraft ender dragon
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Wow - this guy must be really, REALLY bad with money if an extra £208 per month will “ruin” his retirement. Let’s take a look at his situation based on what he told the @Telegraph Because this does NOT add up! No, this is not a “poor pensioner” scrabbling around for pennies… 🧵1/9

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I haven't stopped working for weeks. I'm learning to juggle my work with my health conditions but I will not begin to see much income until after Christmas. I'm escaping domestic abuse which has left me in very restricted conditions. More of my journey is here www.gofundme.com/f/help-a-mum...

Donate to Help a Mum Rebuild a Safe, Stable Home for Her Children, organized by Violet Coal

My name is Violet. I’m a mum of two autistic children. I am a surv… Violet Coal needs your support for Help a Mum Rebuild a Safe, Stable Home for Her Children

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You are not "failing" if a recovery tool many people find useful doesn't seem to work for you. Everybody's nervous system, trauma, & recovery needs are unique. Don't get in your head about how your recovery contrasts to others-- just focus on YOUR next recovery supporting choice.

After testing toys powered by AI, researchers found that the playthings can easily verge into risky conversational territory for children, including telling them where to find knives in a kitchen and how to start a fire with matches. Merry Christmas children! 🔪🔥💀🎄 futurism.com/artificial-i...

AI-Powered Toys Caught Telling 5-Year-Olds How to Find Knives and Start Fires With Matches

AI-powered toys are flying off the shelves -- but they're engaging in horrifically inappropriate conversations with children.

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But my children deserve some sort of Christmas experience with their mother. Please consider helping us. These four gifts on my list that are reduced dramatically would be fantastic gifts for my kids. I cannot afford to get them, even at their reduced cost. They will be up in price again soon.

Furby toy £27.49 down from £59.99 in black friday amazon deal/ Vatos Science kit £39.99 down from £59.99.mysteries of universe book £8 from £20Leaprfrog kids hoover 24.99 from 37.99

Good morning to Brazilian reporter Manuela Borges, who’s been waiting eleven years for this petty moment. ❤️ 🇧🇷

I still have to share this. Me & my kids need to be reunited. I don't feel great about this but the restrictions placed on me by my ex make this necessary. They have health problems being ignored. Restrictions from being with me. They need me, a lot. I am working very hard and as much as I can.

Violet Coal@violetcoalwrites.bsky.social · 10mo ago

I really didn't want to do this. I really didn't. Something happened this week that made me see it is now essential to reach out and ask for help. I don't really know what to say. I'm sad, stressed. I will put this here and I will hide for a little while. Sorry. www.gofundme.com/f/help-a-mum...