Josh Parsons

@walktothesun.bsky.social

walktothesun from Twitter | hachyderm.io/@walktothesun Platform Engineer @ Honeycomb | I do not succeed unless you succeed | Opinions are my own | he/him

Thirty years ago I started asking a question the people around me did not have language for and the institutions I worked inside did not have a category for. The question was not complicated. It was: why does this keep happening regardless of who is involved?

front and back cover of The Predator's Table: Facing the Truth About the Myth of White Supremacy by Kim Crayton

I'm so glad I was able to make this. These topics, affirming and defending our humanity in tech and bringing better psychology into our software engineering communities just... I feel a very profound source of joy within these conversations that I just want to hang on to and linger within.

Cat Hicks@grimalkina.bsky.social · last wk.

SEATTLE friends: Cat-in-real-life alert! I am in Seattle this week and decided to host a small (limited spots) Psychology of Software Teams happy hour this thursday July 30th, 4-6pm. RSVP here for location & to secure a spot: luma.com/lxcmtn68

I have a new blog post out on honeycomb.io, diving into the insights and lessons of completing a major, multi-quarter Kafka migration project at Honeycomb. www.honeycomb.io/blog/transfo... There are some things that I talk about in this post that I'd like to speak to more of here. 🧵

Transforming How We Run Kafka at Honeycomb

How we pulled off a large-scale Kafka migration project by learning from past mistakes, prioritizing rollback safety, and building shared knowledge.

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It's launch week for The Psychology of Software Teams and to pour even more jet fuel into your personal launch I have written a full BOOK CLUB GUIDE which can be used by either solo readers or groups :) Free for you to use, share, remix, adapt catharsisinsight.com/book-club-gu...

A Book Club Guide to The Psychology of Software Teams

Discussion questions, facilitator notes, and try-it prompts for book clubs reading The Psychology of Software Teams by Cat Hicks, PhD.

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IT'S POST'S BOOK BIRTHDAY! 🥳 Want a guidebook to the human side of tech? Want to cut through the noise of despair and anger to craft more meaningful work? Want to get sharp metacognitive strategies for this new era? Get all that *and* Launch Squad bragging rights here: www.drcathicks.com#book

Dr. Cat Hicks

Leading the science of software success

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conputer dipshit@davidcrespo.bsky.social · 3w ago

excited to read @grimalkina.bsky.social's book, out today!

I get asked to read and blurb a lot of books. It's always an honor to be asked -- writing a book is a TON of work -- but I almost never do. If I wouldn't chase you down on the street and urge you to read a book, it feels wrong to blurb it. I would chase you down to read this. My blurb is true.

Dr. Cat Hicks

Leading the science of software success

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Cat Hicks@grimalkina.bsky.social · 2mo ago

Today's book post is going to be short and joyful, because we've been learning a lot of science but it's time to ride into the weekend with some celebration. I'd like to share some of the early reviews of The Psychology of Software Teams!! 🥹🥹🥹

I've been in a lot of workplaces where the dominant messaging about how we should all act was that competition is what delivers the sharpest knowledge work, and I'd bet a lot of you have heard this too. But the science of group problem-solving tells a different story

Multiracial community building carries so much joy. It’s not that it isn’t complex but when it works - you see places like New York City last night and today - light up. It is truly nourishing for a human. It carries none of the hateful anger of the segregationist right. That joy can move mountains.

If your org still hasn’t figured out things like how to patch without production falling over or getting teams to talk to each other, a higher volume of findings will only make those things worse. Before you worry about Mythos, figure out how you’re going to deal with that

Mel Robbins just posted a sponsored prompt for Microsoft Copilot telling her 10 million followers to hand their financial documents over to an LLM and let it sort out their money problems. Before we talk about why that is dangerous, we need to talk about the word she used to describe the tool.

Screenshot of a Threads post by melrobbins, verified account, marked Author, posted 1 day ago. Text reads: Copy and paste or upload a screenshot of this prompt to take control of your money: I feel overwhelmed, behind, or ashamed about my money, and I want help understanding what's actually going on without judgment. Go slowly and guide me one step at a time. Don't give me everything at once, after each step, stop and wait for my response before continuing. I'll share documents like bank statements, debt statements, bills, and income info when you ask. If I'm not sure what to upload, start by telling me the three most helpful documents to share first. Ask one question at a time until you have what you need, and tell me clearly if anything important is missing. Then explain what's happening in plain language, show me where my money is going, and sort my spending into what I have to pay, what changes month to month, and what I'm choosing to spend. Help me figure out. Continuation of the same Threads post by melrobbins. Text reads: If I'm not sure what to upload, start by telling me the three most helpful documents to share first. Ask one question at a time until you have what you need, and tell me clearly if anything important is missing. Then explain what's happening in plain language, show me where my money is going, and sort my spending into what I have to pay, what changes month to month, and what I'm choosing to spend. Help me figure out whether my biggest issue is earning, spending, debt, or not having a clear plan. Point out what I may not be seeing or may be avoiding, and what would help me feel more in control right now. If I have debt, help me understand realistic options based on my balances, interest rates, minimums, and what I can actually afford, don't assume I have extra money. If the main issue is income, help me identify realistic ways to earn more based on my skills, time, and situation. End by turning this into five clear steps I can follow. Keep it simple, practical, and non-judgmental.

u do not need to spread the fascists' own words to talk about them, u do not need to use what is, essentially, fascist propaganda as a springboard for your take, they are using you to spread it further than they otherwise could.

If all goes according to plan, in a few hours, a crew of astronauts will begin a journey that will take them on a loop around the moon. Here's a video that NASA put together to help people visualize the journey through space, first orbiting the earth before looping around the moon and flying home 🔭

I wrote a blog post for Honeycomb and shared a little bit about my journey from observability champion to Honeycomb customer to Bee. Beyond the specifics of the journey, something I want to highlight is why this shit matters so much to me. 🧵 www.honeycomb.io/blog/from-cu...

From Customer to Bee: An Observability Champion's Journey

How Josh Parsons championed observability at Amperity, ran a winning tooling evaluation, and ultimately joined Honeycomb.

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I wholly understand that what I'm going to say here is absolutely not new or novel, but rather something to reinforce and re-emphasize. This is one example of the continuous occupational hazards our trans/NB/gender nonconforming colleagues continue to face every single fucking day for existing.

Liz Fong-Jones (方禮真)@lizthegrey.com · 4mo ago

The things people will apparently send unsolicited under their real name and employer in 2026: armchair phrenology and transphobia that comes straight from Kiwi Farms. It's super creepy/weird and he should just touch grass. (based on timing, guessing he's a 4chan member rather than a KF poster)

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Hey man, nice jaw - can you recommend any exercise to get such a masculine jaw line? Women must dig it. Cheers bro

I was one of the engineers involved throughout the entirety of this incident, and I really appreciate what this report conveys. Most particularly, how the analysis highlights key, intertwining sociotechnical effects that impact incidents like this. 1/

Fred Hebert@ferd.ca · 5mo ago

Back in December, we had a large outage at work. The internal investigation took a while and the internal report was roughly 40 pages long. For the public, we managed to try and condense it to a much shorter format that we think can still offer useful insights to other organizations:

I’m raising rent relief funds for Minneapolis immigrant families affected by ICE. Donations are down, but ICE is very much still here and there’s still so much need. Can you help? V: @Ian-Coldwater CA: $iancoldwater PP: @coldwater We keep us housed 💛 Please share and help if you can! Thank you!

molly conger@socialistdogmom.bsky.social · 6mo ago

i think one of the roadblocks people feel like they’re running into when deciding to donate to mutual aid funds is figuring out what’s trustworthy. i find it helps to outsource that vetting - i trust ian completely, and ian knows & trusts their community in minneapolis.

I couldn't quite put my finger on exactly why others' descriptions of moltbook felt both weird and also strangely familiar to me. And then it dawned on me, The Talos Principle: Road to Gehenna explored some of these same ideas.

A screenshot from the first DLC of the game The Talos Principle called Road to Gehenna. In front of a wall of off-white stone with grey blotches is a black terminal screen with a grey and white keyboard below it. Two robotic hands are typing on the keyboard. The text on the terminal screen is in white. At the top of the terminal screen, the word GEHENNA is displayed, stylized with a combination of monochromatic box-shaped glyphs. The terminal is showing the home screen of a virtual forum community made by other androids in Gehenna. Below the word GEHENNA reads:

Displaying active threads filtered for user URIEL_COPY [6].

* Mod Discussion#329 Re: Solutions [8+]
* 454E[]44[][]
* A Message to the Future
* Mod Discussion#330 Re: War Room [8+]
* Ascension: An Objective Review
* The Outer World
* Mod Discussion#335 Re: The Asset [9+]
* Mod Discussion#327 Re: Urgent Topics [ATCH] [8+]
* Mod Discussion #316 Re: PD Findings [7+]
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Farewell Atlantis [ATCH]
Save Yourselves
Goodbye
A Short Bildungsroman by Uriel_Copy
Scared
Top 10 Things I Love About Gehenna
Jefferson Goldboom (Announcement).
Why do we deserve to be saved?
Straton Fragment #13
A Small Apology
An Historic Occasion [6+]

The word Exit is in the lower right of the screen.

Below the terminal screen and above the keyboard, the word IAN is imprinted on the frame of the terminal in off-white serif lettering

My company surprised me today in the most joyful and special way by letting me and other incident responders break a Kafka-themed bee-shaped piñata with a makeshift cardboard stick. The care and whimsy and thoughtfulness of my co-workers brings me so much joy and incredibly moving.

People already working hard to prove how perfect Alex Pretti was. To show he didn't "deserve" to be killed. But it's a trap folks. You're only feeding into a dynamic where people who are considered lesser get no protection. You don't have to be an Alex Pretti to deserve to live.

The lyrics running through my head today: Now you're punching and you're kicking and you're shouting at me I'm relying on your common decency So far it hasn't surfaced, but I'm sure it exists It just takes a while to travel from your head to your fists - Depeche Mode, People Are People

With video of another street execution from ICE going around, a reminder that while video documentation of atrocities is important, you have no ethical obligation to watch videos of people dying. Traumatizing yourself isn’t advocacy. You do not have to watch the video to be outspoken against this