Seeing Bitter Karella and @scumbelievable.bsky.social talk about fat / trans bodies as sexy really does help me feel better about myself. Society tells me I should be ashamed for having the body I have- seeing literature say “you are a person worthy of desire” means a lot.
i'm using the loaded term "fetishist" on purpose, bc while fat people should receive the same dignity & respect as all people and also erotic fantasy should not be mistaken for real life, i'm trying to avoid the appearance of apologizing. too many fetishists be bowing and scraping for approval