I try super hard not to be the creepy older gay, and if I ever start acting like one, please call me out.
Look, fellow gay men: we can, in fact, get older WITHOUT also becoming creepy! I promise - it can be done! We can just simply get old and not make younger gays uncomfortable by being weird and out of pocket. It can - nay, it MUST - be done and we middle aged gays can be the change we wish to see.