Rebecca Fielding-Miller

@rebeccafieldingmiller.com

Mom. Social epidemiologist. Professional angry feminist. Jewish San Diegan. "So-called expert" on terminated science Associate Professor of Public Health at UC San Diego, all views my own

In many ways, the only thing boys need to learn are the lessons we already teach girls. They need to learn to be part of a community. And if they understand that, then the lessons on consent and sexual violence come naturally.

Teach your son to wait. Teach him that other people are as important as he is. Teach him to apologize and go back to the end of the line if he made an entitled decision. Teach him that girls and women deserve respect in *all* scenarios—not just during sex.

I’m seeing a lot of posts about talking to your sons in light of the Cornell article. And yes. Talk to your sons. Here are some things you should say, based on anti-violence research about what they need to hear:

The Governor just signed my bill to allow people to sue ICE, Border Patrol, and other federal agents for violating people’s constitutional rights. Starting immediately, people can sue federal agents retroactive to abuse occurring in March 2025.

It's true, every sahm has made the choice not to participate in the workforce out of nothing but personal agency. There are no economic considerations at all. And also, these non-existent economic considerations definitely impact men and women the same since there is no gender pay gap. (/S)

The Atlantic@theatlantic.com · yesterday

"Making day care free, while offering nothing to stay-at-home parents, appeals to the educated, urban, affluent voters who have come to make up the Democratic base, but not to the electorate at large," Marc Novicoff argues:

Look man, I'm low on executive function as it is, the last thing I need is a series of unaccountable and untrustworthy autonomous processes to track and double-check for hallucinations and unpredictable omissions

I hate doing the "a rollback of trans rights is the gateway for a rollback of women's rights" thing because trans rights are human rights in and of themselves, whatever the impact on cis women. But goddamn I wish more cis women had a sense of history and self preservation.

I don't know if Dolly Parton was the greatest songwriter of all time but I do know that Dolly Parton writing "Jolene" and "I Will Always Love You" on the same day is the greatest day any songwriter has ever had.

Dolly Parton, among a thousand other amazing things she did in her life, gifted over 330 million books to kids through her Imagination Library program. Her passing is a tremendous loss to the world, but you can support the program today to keep it going imaginationlibrary.com

Dolly Parton's Imagination Library | USA, UK, IE, CA, AU

Dolly Parton’s Imagination Library is a book gifting program that mails free books to children from birth until they begin school in participating areas.

imaginationlibrary.com

I still believe that there is a labor movement that could change that. At least in some states. I do not believe there is a culture of labor among well employed faculty that’s even close to being willing to do that.

Matt Seybold@mattseybold.bsky.social · last mo.

Universities do not represent the interests of professors, who are their rank-and-file labor force, except incidentally. A university is not a coven of professors, much though I wish that were the case.

The 5 Simpsons lines I’ve uttered most off the top of my head 1. I for one welcome our new ____ overlords. 2. The lesson is, never try 3. I'm in danger! 4. What's the difference between this lamb and the one that kissed me??? 5. Grade me, evaluate me, rank me! I'm good good good and oh so smart!!

daniel sieradski@self.agency · last mo.

The 5 Simpsons lines I’ve uttered most off the top of my head 1. D'oh! 2. Ha ha! 3. Me fail English? That's unpossible! 4. Ah, geez. And you got the stink lines and everything. 5. I'm looking for Amanda Hugginkiss! Why can't I find a man to hug and kiss?!

Sometimes we really are America's finest city, though. "The emperor is a fan of Flock, and we must continue utilizing Flock technologies so that we can follow and surveil the rebel scum as they move from playground to playground, from playground to pool, from pool to gymnasium"

Darth Vader stepping up to a microphone in a beige government auditorium with blue chairs. A woman sitting in one of the blue chairs behind him has a look on her face like she is trying very hard not to laugh. The video screengrab has a chyron that reads "San Diego public safety committee non-agenda public comment"

because let's be so fucking for real right now: 1) you can't appease the people who don't want ADHD to exist by sacrificing the "functional" ones who have managed to string together coping mechanisms that will burn them out by 50 2) stigmatizing support will make it harder for all of us

We have to throw some disabled people to the fascists — denying them tailored treatment, reasonable accommodations on the basis of disability, and supports — otherwise the fascists will target all disabled people is perhaps the most fucked up argument i've read recently

David K Smith@professor-dave.bsky.social · last mo.

If we do not start to differentiate properly, many profoundly disabled people with ADHD (and/or autism) are going to be thrown under the bus as the backlash grows against these labels, in part as a result of them including so many relatively mild cases.